My two elder bros were pressured hadi wakabow, one akiwa 27 years, and the other @ 29. Huyo wa 27, a girl was literally shoved up his arse. A few months down the line and the guy knows no peace. I feel sorry for him.
Naona pia mimi wameanza kupile pressure. It is slowly killing all & any joy of calling/visiting them.
My go to reason has always been sina pesa. And I have sucessfully created an impression that i’m just a hand to mouth fellow. However, I have a decent salary and some 1m + savings, some of which I intend to buy a ka jalopy and make some money moves bila kusumbuliwa.
What reasons do you give? Mbona hujaoa/olewa? How has it affected your relationship with say parents and siblings?
Mbona sijaoa?
:D:D:D:D:D… MGTOW= FREEDOM…just tell them ulirogwa na cucu mang’uru na akakufa!!!..just kidding ,just tell them it’s non of their business if you marry or go Mgtow ,wataelewa tu with time.
Sema tu sitaki and dont offer any explanations.
But try mara moja moja waki pitia wanapata ka pair of pumps and stilletos kwa keja ka bra ka thong in your bathroom.
Hata mara moja kuwa na kesi ya dame kukuwekelea mimba na utakua free of any suspicions.
They know I have had scandals in the past. So wanajua sijasubscribe to “chama cha sisi kwa sisi”
Where I come from, I have noted a pattern where parents/ guardians/ society push the marriage agenda kabla mse aguze tupesa, when one is still somehow dependent on them- particularly on men.
As I continue making some few coins, I’m sure i’ll get balsy enough nikue nawaambia direct that sitajibu maswali za upuzi; and let the chips fall wherever they may.
Just tell them you don’t want to marry. Tell them there’s no need to share your wealth with a kunguru who is fresh from partying and whoring, and is now looking for a beta male to pick up from where her parents left.
I really don’t see what I stand to gain from a marriage set up.
Plus even if its pursuing it, at least someone should have some semblance of serious financial stability.
I find it disgusting when a married man with kids constantly borrows “supper” for katoto. And in this generation wamekua wengi sanaaa. Hata ua naogopa kushika simu za watu wengine, including my relatives and workmates.
I think mababa zetu walijipata kwa hii blanda ya marriage and also want us to get in the mix. You know, misery loving company?
I last talked to my father 2 months ago and i was slightly drunk, told him straight up kama ni grandchildren unataka kwangu hupati saii. Na usiniambie hii maneno tena. Wewe tafuta bibi ingine uoe, bado uko sawa, wachana na mimi.
Since iyo phone call frequency of calls went from once a week to no time in the last 2 months.
When I was scratcher of skin he was very stingy with his money and things. Ni ile sampuli ya watu akikutuma ukafuel gari 2k atacall mpaka petrol stn kuhakikisha umeweka gari elfu mbili. This was like 7 years ago when I was in college. Saii niko na kakiru, namalizia pigsty, and I am almost 29, one kid nje, living by myself and enjoying nijiletee mwanamke hapo kunikula akili.
Tafuta dem ako na mwili ya vera. When visiting your brother make sure ameenda na yeye na avae very explicit. Their wives will take care of it. Utafukuzwa huko bila maswali ya bibi