Nkiwa 3rd year Campo, kuna huyu dame I really liked. She was the finest thing I have ever seen. Lakini she never wanted anything to with me; other than kumsaidia na notes wakati wa exam. Hizo siku my hustle was Kuuza maji juu na kupandisha maji kwa nyumba za watu during the weekends. That was my only way to survive. So dame kujua hivyo akaniblock. I remember during one week, during her birthday mimi na Kiherehere yangu nlimpelekea keki ya 125 bob. Kumbe she was dating a Naija Guy anakaa Roysambu and some Politician son from Westlands.
Early this year, she called me. I had even forgotten her voice. Akasema amepata namba kutoka kwa mutual friends. So we started texting. She told me she had 2 kids from two different men. Dame ako 23 turning 24!!!Nlishangaa namuuliza kulienda aje ama hajui story za protection? akasema the guys she was dating were not serious and wanted to just have sex with her. From living in Kilimani now she is living some place in Kiambu called Kaimako or something like that. I pitied her. This chick was runner-off to Miss University. She used to be picked by Range Sports kwa gate wakati mimi and the boys would trek for 1 hour kutafuta hustles.
Anyway, she says she heard I was doing good; and had even started building. Nkamwambia maisha hainipeleki vibaya. She asked me to help her with cash for diapers za watoto wake ati her baby-daddy wamekataa. I told her I cant help her since I do a thorough budget for all my finances.
When we met the lady was still hot but you could tell stress na zmemkula. We got talking and she told me she wants a man WHO WILL LOVE HER AND HER DAUGHTER LIKE HER OWN!!! nlishidwa kuongea. I told her even though am single sina time ya ku date. She saw right through me and asked me if its the kids wanafanya i reject her. I told her yes. I didnt want to bring long stories; so I told her siezi lea mtoto wa single mother if the man is still alive. she promised me the 2 different dads will not appear in her life, if we start dating. Nkacheka. At the end of the date; I told her I can’t date her. Kila mtu na msalaba wake. I told her she is 23, she can still turn her life around otherwise; atapata watoto kumi or heart ache.
Had a similar experience…Ambia those campus girls wasidharau those guys they study. Hawa sponsers watawaasha and they will tafuta those guys wameshinda wakiwadharau…
We naona unajitafutia shida, once rejected kanyaga kubwa kubwa, otherwise ataanza kukuitisha favors day and night, chukua slices na uingie karura forest
Lakini kabisa kabisa madem hawana akili ya kuona the sponyos will only use them and ditch them immediately they are tired of hitting their kanyau?
Nahurumia huyo singo matha but again wenye maarifa walisema msiba wa kujitakia hauna kilio.
You were way too kind to her, engaging her and sugarcoating your rejection. Mimi ningemwambia tu point blank, “you rejected me during your prime, don’t think I’m stupid enough to accept you during my prime.” That would have stung her a good one.
How do you engage in something and not benefit from it… You people don’t value your time, I hope uko na plan of how utapata ROI ya hiyo interaction…
Alafu upate the bitch alikuwa anataka tu validation/advice/attention yako… Value your time cretins and stop engaging in activities zingine za kipuzi then unaandika 4 paragraphs kujipatia a pat on your back…
Naah, that would just validate her and confirm to her that you’re a loser who still finds her attractive enough to fuck even after she has been ran through and left with two creampie evidence.
I once had a girl in my class tukiwa campo tell me she cant date me ati sina gari and ati mimi Iive in a single room na food mi hukula jioni peke yake. Wallahi she said that to my face infront of her friends. My friends walicheka the whole week. She ended up dating some rich sponsers, one of them a whole cabinet Minister. Dame alikombolewa keja na had a good life-tukashindwa boy child alilaaniwa wapi. Mpaka salamu class hataki.
To cut a long story shot. The sponser got something fresh after campo. The lady had wasted her prime akilewa na kuzunguka and had very bad grade as she missed class going to rugby matches. She is a single mother of 3 children also from different men. She called me and told me her story. I almost beat her up ati she wants me to date her and love her children. If ngejua i would have taken slices and disappeared; but sahiyo I was just happy and furious at the same time ya vile ananibeba fall as her fall back plan. Watoto 3 na bibi imechapa nifanye nini nayo…she is almost 27!!!
I tell campus ladies, wasidharau hao maboy mahustlers; sponser atakuacha and you will need those young men who will be in their primes and doing well in life.