Jacked from MKZ.
I have decided to divorce my wife and I do not know if I am doing the right thing or not. This woman is a liar and a manipulator. It has been 3 years of turmoil, suspicion, lies and war. First of all, she has a son with someone else and she kept that from me for a year. Imagine nikiwa naye anashinda ananiuliza " Kuna beshte yangu ako na mtoto na husband wake hajui. Ingekua wewe ungefanya nini?" Ananipima bangi, and I told her mimi sipendi watu waongo so obviously if I was that man, I could have left.
So one day Akaenda kwao, kurudi she comes back with her son. She LIES ati her cousin anaenda Saudi Arabia kufanya kazi na Hana mtu wa kuachia mtoi so amedecide kukuja naye. I get angry of course, because she has not consulted me first, but she proves to me beyond reasonable doubt that it was a good move. For one year her “cousin’s son” is in my house. So nikamuuliza, jamani, this cousin of yours pesa za mtoto za matumizi hatumi, anaexpect akule nyasi? She gets so angry ati kwani huyo mtoto anakula nini hapa ya kumaliza pesa. I’m like it’s just good mtu akikupa mtoi atleast, akue anashughulika, kitu ikihappen mbaya to this kid, what will happen?what will we say? Mbio mbio she has packed her things amekuja na lorry anaeka vitu. Me nimetulia tu mwanaume sitaki vita.
She left akaenda for three days. So one day nikatoka job I get her in the house amerudi. I didn’t even ask where she was from. Minding my own business. Then she starts crying ati I do not show her affection, namshuku kila mara, I’m ignoring her, she needs attention. Let me explain that kama ni attention na affection I have given this woman. I come home early from work, I refuse to work overtime and on weekends just to be with her, I buy her stuff without complaining sijui Makeup,Matte lipstick, sijui zingine zinajiita face palette, sijui concealers, everything she sees she wants and I buy, I cuddle her like every night, I take her out and on trips if I can. Anasema namshuku, I have never even shukud her one bit.
So we settle everything tukaendelea na life, the kid is still with us.
Mungu hawachi watu wake. One day she tells me that the brother is coming to Nairobi and hana place ya kulala so tumhost. I am like okay. When the brother comes, tunahang out na yeye and he spills the beans. Ati you know you are a good person. Not every man can accept kuishi na their step son. Nikamuuliza weeee, what are you saying. I get very angry. I confront her. She starts crying " hunipendi, you listen to people more than me. She parks her things usiku, anafukuza brother yake. She takes the kid and leaves with everything.
Me nikajiambia sitamfuata. I have a right to be angry.
After a week akarudi without the kid. I didn’t even ask. I know her dramas and I don’t want to awaken the devil in her. So mwenyewe tu she starts explaining ati alirepiwa ndo akapata ball, so she is still traumatised and doesn’t want to remember. That is why she did not tell me. I’m like okay
Kumalizia, I went out of the country kusoma. I left her my atm nikamwambia any time you need money just withdraw. I come back amemaliza pesa yote kwa account. Namuuliza how can you spend a very very huge amount of money. Excuses tu, sijui alinunulia watu kwa IDP camp vitu. Uongo gani hii? This woman is so so mean.there was a time my sister came to live with us for a while. She used to cook ugali cabbage and githeri every day ati ndo my sister aget tired ndo aende. So nikamwambia I want to eat fish for supper. That night she cooked ugali cabbage again. Kumuuliza she tells me nikitaka Samaki niende ninunue mwenyewe. Ati Roho yake inataka cabbage. So that night I bought fish and I gave my sister to cook. When she came from work, she started yelling.ati we are disrespecting her, samaki inachafua pots zake. She throws away the fish. Parks her things and leaves
Back to money issues. I have a farm ushago. So I give her money aende aplant maize. She eats the money, she lies ati amepanda. When I go home kucheck, the shamba is just Bush.
Juzi I find she is 6 months pregnant. And every time I used to ask her anasema ni tumbo ya wamama. We use protection with her juu she told me hataki mimba saizi, ati she wants us to enjoy ourselves together for sometime before tuzae.That is not my pregnancy. Again I find out alipeleka her son kwa baby dady. And whenever she gets angry, she goes to the baby daddy to spend the night. How did I know? She has this version of WhatsApp that enables her to hide some chats. And it’s like God wanted me to see. We were sleeping last Saturday and she woke up kitu 5am and starts chatting. So me nikashtuka tu naona light ya simu, so I move closer and look at the screen. She had no other option but to continue typing…
She then blames me for that as well. I do not know how to handle this. Maybe I am just too soft spoken ama sijui
She tells me she was vulnerable juu tulikua tumekosana that’s why she cheated on me with the baby daddy. My money anachukua anapea baby daddy ati analinda mtoto.
Really? Hata kama ni wewe jamani?
I kent