Hello. I started dating this woman in 2019 and recently married her. We’re blessed with a one-year-old child. The challenge is that my wife doesn’t like my parents and finds it uncomfortable when I pay fees for my siblings. She even feels bad when I go home. I have a house there but she doesn’t want to stay in ushago. In fact, she insists we should buy land and set up a home elsewhere, which I am not ready to do since I have a house at home. She doesn’t want me to go out with friends and when I do, she reacts badly. She is against any kind of development I do at home and wants me to channel all my resources towards her. I take good care of her and my child, they don’t lack anything. Sometimes I feel like dumping her for someone else who will agree to live in my rural home and develop there together, and even hang out with friends once in a while. Advise me before I make decisions that will haunt me again. Kindly keep this anonymous.
Cc: Nation. Africa
??? badala ya kufocus kwa red flags alikuwa anaangalia rasa ama?
Kama si wewe. Rudisha hii umeffi nation.
The advice utapata hapa is exclusive to Kijiji.
Malisa hio luhya simp. Alipenda matako akakosa kutumia akili.
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Ata kama dem ni mrembo aje, ama unapenda aje, ukiona red flags jitoe Bana…it will end up being messy and noisy…@Admin pin ile thread ya red flags hapa, elders need to be updated on this red flags.
Huyo mwanaume aliwacha mapenzi imdanganye. Let him pay. Huyu hata akiowa tena, he will still make a mistake and will eventually go back to the first wife
I said it in another post. When it comes to marriage, men need to take time and observe how their wife to be will react to different situations. Don’t be in a hurry to settle down just because you are in love. Kuna mahali ikifika, hiyo love haitakusaidia. Only their character will help you then
Mtu akianza na “the challenge” hakukaa na mzee amfafanulie vile maisha ya planteshen huwaga
Hapa unalay the law mapema. Unamshow she’ll never come above your parents and that’s that. Kama hayuko comfortable atembee. Lazma dem ajue ako very dispensable ju technically what does the girl have that OP can’t get? Tayari ana mtoto. Kama ni slices anaeza pata kwingine bila this attitude
Does she not make her own money?Use your money the way you feel and she can use hers the way she likes
Black tax ni mbaya heri uwe umesota hakuna mtu atakusumbua.
Badala ajenge familia yake anajenga ya mzazi.