Marrying for wrong reasons

I was listening to some podcast about marriage, it occurred to me that the reason most modern marriages fail has been right before our eyes.

When you are past 30 like most elders here, you’ll find old fossils and single mothers tend to gravitate towards you, Sasa the basic question is why do men marry?!!

The church teaches men to marry a well behaved girl, but what they don’t teach us is that sex dies immediately you get married.

@Yuletapeli tell us if your wife still gives it to you ?!! How is plantation

Most marry due to societal pressure.

Nobody marries because of just sex! You must be the only one who thinks that way in the entire universe. Marriage is about companionship and sharing. Sex is just the icing in the cake.

You sound like a plantation worker?!!!

Marriage naonanga inaokoleanga sana ukiwa mzae…mi huenda home nacheki venye mzae na mathe huchapa story wakiwa wawili kwa mansion yao najua kwa nini kuoa ni Lazima…having built a big house early on sisi tuka grow up tukawaacha (funny thing nyumba mingi za wadosi hauta pata tu nigglets tuna lelewa uko na their grandparents)iyo hao mzae angekuwa anashinda na mboch na shamba boy kama angeamua kuwa AMG

Well have you thought about this logically?!! they didn’t just grow old together in a shot period of time, our parents and grandparents got married in the 90s, those days women were not allowed to whore around carelessly whether they were sad or not, in their marriage !! This times mukikosana kidogo you divorce anaenda kugawa inje

No argument from me elder…marriage za siku izi ni God…finding a partner you can flourish with as you age ni God

Mimi nilioa juu siwezi zaa na lanye

Hapa kwani vipee ni wengi aje?

not really, most marry because of unplanned pregnancies. Hapo ndo shida huanza, later you realise, you’ve different views on life and you can’t agree on anything

Believe it or not, vihii vinatufunza mambo ya planteshen

Tulia elder

lazima tuendelezee a young Kenyan population for manpower , pia hatutaki population ya singo madhas iongezeke

Vipii wameamua kupea sisi advice ya mambo ya planteshen bana. Ati their grandparents married in the 90s bana…akijua wengine wetu wazazi walioana early 80s…grandparents probably 50s and 60s

You are married? I don’t believe it

Shida ni moja tu.By the time mtu ana decide haezi zaa na lanye ana discover dem ni lanye akiwa na ball ya 6 months.

This is a very good observation. It needs its own thread. Why do you think thats so?

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If your grandparents married in the 90s the. Youre a teenager and your parents most likely had you when you when they were teenagers

If you have a degree you will easily know this is hearsay and propaganda