Today I went for dental check in undisclosed location, Sasa kufika around 3pm kulikuwa na 9 people ahead of me ikibidii nitulie waiting area.
Pale kwa waiting area kulikuwa na jamaa probably in his 30s, I could tell he was newly married because, instead ya bibi kucheza na mtoto, jamaa ndio ako hapo akifanyia mtoto abujubuju, while the kid laughs loudly, bibi amekaa just browsing, kidogo the guy akatoka inje na mtoto, when he was out , the doctor called the wife in because she was next in line .
Jamaa kurudi ,anatuuliza shamelessly where the wife is, akaambiwa na receptionist the wife ako examination room, Yani ninja shamelessly followed the wife kule ndani while carrying the kid.
Yenyewe married men huwa wanabebewa akili na bibi @Yuletapeli (plantation worker mkuu) , tell me am wrong?!!
Sina mtoto lakini nikipata hata diapers nitakua nabadilisha na kumwosha bibi akiniangalia hapo tu. Taking responsibility for raising your child is not being a simp.
What kind of “manliness” sublimates the moment you show love and responsibility to your child and wife? Yani you are punishing you child by denying them fatherly affection ndio ujiite "mwanaume"? No wonder some of you are addicted to prostitutes because you can’t hold a normal relationship. You are self medicating with drugs because you have repressed mental issues emanating from emotional neglect and abuse that you received in the hands of your parents/guardian. And you are propagating this to your own children.
Hapa I believe you need to read widely daddy. Fathers are clinically proven to be very good at “abujubuju”. They are a child’s best friend because they have energy for playtime which is very critical in early childhood.
My daughter loves me more than her mom lakini huwa naambia khupipi achangamke, I indulge my baby girl when I feel like it. You have to set boundaries as a man usibebwe shudren, hao masimp nimewakulia khupipi sana