Learnt this from that chokoraa @Azor Ahai. That women cannot compromise on financial stability. Yaani mwanaume you must provide. That is your foremost role and it has been that way since the beginning of time. When you fail in that role is when cracks will start to appear.
Alafu men cannot compromise on sexual fidelity. A man wants exclusive sexual access. If the woman cheats that’s when cracks will start to appear kwa relationship.
I’m going to suggest that one inevitably leads to the other. A man losing his job will lead to the woman cheating.
Also, a woman cheating on a hardworking beta male will lead to loss of morale on the man’s part, leading to alcoholism and in most cases loss of income.
A prime example is our very own @poyoloko. He lost his job as an uber driver and his wife told him, “toka nje nibadilishe nguo.” A few days later he found her getting ravaged by a close friend.
I agree, but past a certain age financial prowess becomes a key factor. Raw attraction involves nubile teen girls. Past a certain age women become sexually obsolete. They transform into old cows with rolls of blubber and the only thing that makes them wet is a fat wallet.
a prime example is @Finest wine. That woman has blocked half the village kwa sababu he deems them “broke boys.” He has even blocked the brownskinned @Azor Ahai. The only thing that turns her own is a fat wallet. That is the reason she hasn’t blocked @mikel.
Money isn’t everything if we are talking about sex. Sex is all about raw primitive animalistic impulses. I’ve seen so many loaded niggas beg for pussy mpaka it’s sad. You have to work out, be charismatic and dress well yadayada.