@Purple you are not alone in the lane ya kuliisha wanaume. This should be your role model in female work mule manenos. Analisha a man and 7 kids. Anaacha mwanaume mzima amelala akamtafutie. Wow. How about that?
I will defend Mrs here. Initially when you move to the States, the only job you can do are menial jobs. But her huzzy is an Injinia so he will have to wait for his credentials to transfer. Then he can start job hunting in that field, difficult for him considering his background is Kenya. But he can baby sit, read books(study) and work out for now. Not bad. My old bosses husband was a stay-at-home dad until their two kids made it to mid high school. And she was quite edgy when he started trying to go back to work.
Acha za ovyo mwanammke , I was down for three years a while back and mwoman alinilisha na kunilewesha , feminism tamalisa wewe