I trust that you are having awesome holidays. I travelled to visit one of my baby mama to check on the progress of her pregnancy ( she is the one that a cs and gave birth at 8months sadly the baby passed on…i had put up a listing about it on klost) This time we are not taking chances we decided to change doctors and hospitals. If i may recap about what happened last time, one afternoon when she was eight months She started bleeding and was rushed to hospital she was operated and gave birth via cs. The baby passed on one day later when i talked to the doc who operated on her she said that she had extensive fibroids and that when she started bleeding the baby was sucking in the blood via nostrils and mouth, she strongly advised her against giving birth via the the regular means in future. I accepted my loss and we have really tried hard to heal. Now the opinion of the second gyna has really totally thrown the cats amongst the pigeons first of all it turns out she has no fibroids at all thats after more than three scans, the uterus is not low lying like last time everything is progessing well except that she has to take iron pills and her veins in the legs occasionally cant take the blood pressure hence had to buy medical compression stockings pic attached. She confronted the doc who operated on her and demanded her file which has conviniently vanished from the last hospital. My question is can you in a humble opinion try to help me know what might have gone wrong last so that we can try to avoid it this time around. Could it be a case of mis diagnosis or outright negligence? Any clarification you want just ask and i will provide…thanks[ATTACH=full]25382[/ATTACH]
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pole sana…medical negligence is just the worst
Wtf, stopped when I read of dead babies. Sips a rare merlot.
pole @imei2012
Shit happens
Isorait had healed but this new devt is disturbing
Pole sana bro,
Pole sana. Sue the hospital for negligence using your current doctor’s evidential information.
You can get hefty compensation and a justified closure. All the best bro.
Did you do a DNA test on the baby? They could have replaced your baby with another and sold him/her. Pole. Sue the doctor & hospital.
uuum … mkay
do what @wheelz amesema
Yeah, that happens a lot. A few years ago, as we were checking out a young mother who had just delivered her 2nd born,we noticed that the gender of the baby was indicated as a boy. Yet after she came through after her CS, she was told she had a delivered a baby girl. When we questioned the nurse at the clearance counter why the discrepancy, she disappeared inside and came back with a superior minus the file but dismissed the error casually. It’s almost 5 years now, the lady is at a loss whether to conduct a DNA or let the matter rest. There’s a a clear difference between her two daughters but the 2nd one is a bubbly, funny and witty kid she wouldn’t imagine losing.
Some issues are hard to comprehend, I feel your loss @imei2012 .
Aih, dunia keeps reminding us about how ugly it is.
Big up man for getting through this.
My baby mama is a cop and can easily do that problem is that doctors make a patient or next of kin sign a form shielding them from prosecution should anything go wrong
I have no doubt that they could have switched the baby coz when the mum came around after the surgery she went to the nursery and even breastfed him
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Some shitty world how do they live with that guilt knowing that you have messed up other peoples lives
Am not married but that does not mean that i cant take care of my responsibilities as a baby daddy
Wont tell you it has been easy man boy would have been almost two years now