There was this economist who came up with a theory that love does not exist. It is simply a creation by society to organise individuals into households and market products to them. (Can’t remember his name, if someone can, help me out)
Many have concurred that marriage is about the acquisition of wealth, not love. It’s also about having children to transmit wealth.
Even biologists agree that love is just a bunch of hormones: testosterone that causes lust, dopamine and serotonin that cause attraction and oxytocin that cause bonding.
I suspect it’s a primitive biological instinct to further one’s own genes. Nothing to do with love.
So that man sees the fisi’s genes as foreign. They may mess up his gene pool with their unknown traits, and he may have to expend his energy nurturing someone else’s genes.
Love exists my friend but its just biology mediated by social condition. Since every human has a biological need to propagate his/her genes foward sex becomes very appealing to both genders, remeber though the whole reason sex exist is for.reproductive purposes. Since the woman bears children they develop not that many strategies for this but for the guy kuna tatu respective ways to get ur genes foward::
1· Pair with one or more females considering the amount of resources required to raise a human baby to adult hood this was encouraged by most societies.
2.Hit and Run this is a fairly new phenomena brought on by the emancipation of women and introduction of reliable birth control. Kitambo women were vert cautious about whom they mated with due to the dire consequences of single motherhood. Kunguru culture is actually a fairly recent phenomena.
3.Ya tatu was rape which happened with social outcasts and also during war. Taking of sex slaves was also very common in most societies.
Number One was obviously encouraged as societies developed since it led to better healthier more manegable societies.
love exists coz I know I love myself allot. Like two nights ago nlipata nmeota na a second more lovelier and sexier version of me, I hated him at first coz I thought ni competition but then tukaanza kuwa mabeshte and fell in love together. and thats how I know there is love, by falling in love with myself.
