Vipi mashemeji, as one of the OGs wa kijiji it’s about time I dropped some real knowledge kwa hii vijana wadogo hapa when it comes to relationships.
First of all why get married as a man? Secondly, if you’re going to get married why choose someone whose virginity you did not take? It’s a sign of bad judgement on the part of the woman if she was carefree and did not realize one of her biggest assets which is her body. Y’all out here marrying women with sexual ties to a harem of men and actual demons no wonder ni nuks tu inakuchapa.
Women want all sorts of things (a provider, handsome, six figures etc ) so you should feel no shame in your having your own standards. This, however, comes with a caveat, you have to be a high value man. It’s honestly cringe a person of either gender demands a lot from the other gender na huna kitu ya kuoffer.
There’s a lot of things that a man would want from a woman but two things YOUR WIFE should give you are her innocence and a family. You should be the one to take the virginity of the woman you are going to marry. It’s such a simple thing. It’s something ALL women are born with.
Imagine anaa kimjamaa was sweating on top of your wife! Jamaa alipendua wife kama chapo na ety wewe ndio unatingiza kinyambis kwa Isle ya kanisa na unaoa mtu alikua anapigwa combi. Kwanza why is your wife wearing a white gown which signifies purity? Anafaa avae a black one tu-reminisce tukimnunulia maGino huko Memphis. No wonder marriages don’t last!
Why would you even get mad when she finally strays out after you have married her? Si alishapeana kitambo?
We are not asking for money, cows, buildings, title deeds, figure 8, we just want purity, is that too much to ask?
2021 Usiniite kwa harusi yako kama bibi c wewe ulivunja hymen. We OOOLISKIA WAPI? NIMEKATAA HIO! Enda kwa Ag Ghaseer. Epuka ujinga, choose a virgin. Kwa hayo machache, cheza dance!