Inabidi uwe mzuri with a capacity to do the bad/necessary. Unakuwa good wife hazi akianza mchezo unamuambia ajitoe ama pia wewe uanze kujifurahisha huko nje
Take it easy, … but you should know that there comes a time when you have to put yourself ahead of everyone else… more so if the ones that you are helping are inconsiderate and do not appreciate your sacrifice
Usiwahi kubali kubeba mizigo ya wenyewe. Yaani mtu anakuja anaku-unleash-ia stress zake zote anatembea stress-free nawe unabaki na hizo stress? Never ever. Everybody is responsible for their own happiness.
There are people who have legitimate, significant problems. It’s totally acceptable, if not admirable, to help these in their time of need. However, there are are those with silly little problems that they not only blow out of proportion, but refuse to do anything about. These are the one’s who will try to turn their problems to yours and drain you of all happiness. Maturity is knowing how to identify the two and deal with them accordingly.