Life Dilemma

This is how things are now, less a hekaya from a NV.

So back in high school I had this yelloyello friend who felt I was her boyfriend though I had not submitted my cv. We were long time formal friends and with little undocumented relationship. In fact while we were in primary school I used to do two copies of exam answer sheet, one for her. The habit continued for a short while until tukanaswa and things were not good that she requested her parents to transfer her to a new school. Things were tough in her new school because she had to read now, nonetheless she survived to some classes and repeated in some.

FF to 2011

After the transfer we seldom saw each other as I was from couple of villages away and also we had little time for holidays due to demanding chores at home at those short time plus rainy afternoons never lets anyone to take evening walk . It was in this year that I finished my fourth form exams while she was now in second form. Due to more freedom to roam we managed to renew the old acquaintance and I had acquired my new Nokia 2730c so communication was not a problem. We did meet like twice in about six months before I joined campus that following year.

Now in campus life was favourable, plenty of girls around and I started my hunting mission in my second semester, luckily I managed to convince one yelloyello that I was the guy. Little by little we fell in love (not sure if it was or just infatuation) and I did forget my old friend so swiftly but when I was home we could meet up sometimes.

After her fourth form we were little more cosy which were weird at first but now I was more needy than before having started licking honey from my girlfriend. Now this fateful Christmas eve she called me at dusk akitaka kunitolea form, I couldn’t resist. I took a bodaboda to their place as the parents and siblings were going for kesha. I knew I had like two hours to quench my thirst and take off. If you are wondering if it happened, he’ll yea, I managed to get three satisfying trips to wonderland. This is not the part though.

So now comes the dilemma, after that Dec the girl missed the monthly payments, she was pregnant and I couldn’t deny. I owned up the outcome and encouraged her to keep against all odds. I did talk to my elder sisters and the stood with me. Besides I was receiving some Helb loan which I thought we could share. Through troubling moments we did manage to handle situation and also keeping it secret from my girlfriend. Now the baby is two years and some months. The problem is that I love the baby and I want to support her but the mother is asking me to love her as well. I love my current girlfriend so much but I can’t have them both; the baby and her. One has to suffer, who do I keep? The baby or my girlfriend?

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Kaa hapo kwanza elders wajadiliane
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@M2Random and @Father Figure kindly come over. Kuna mtu ameunda singo madha

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confession time!!! kweni deadbeat dads & randy men did a number on you.

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Patia mtoto simu.
On a serious note…What does your current girlfriend think about the whole arrangement…or its still a secret?

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@Jirani ebu leta more screenshots za dead beat dads. I guess that mtandao is giving dead beat dad chills.

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She knows nothing, I’ve been a good boy. She can’t even believe it If I tell her

Hauja join hio telegram group bado? thot everyone did…ama your Iphone6 haikubali?

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@Guru install Telegram on your phone or PC then join the deadbeat telegram group using this link >>> https://telegram.me/deadbeatdadsandhomewreckers/3

Wameanikwa wengi sana …i can’t screenshot all

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Sijajoin.

Tell her now and save both of you the “you wasted my” time talk in future. If she loves you she will accept you with your “baggage” …if she dumps you count your slices and move on. The baby’s mother cannot force you to love her…that’s your choice… however taking care of that baby is your mission in life.

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wacha waundwe… singo matha = okoa jahazi, kwa nyakati za ukame

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She can’t tolerate such, I asked her indirectly and she said even if for love and money she’ll never accept such disgrace

:D:D:D:Dshushu ya ozil ama

Hata sijui shida iko wapi… Uko na two coomers. Count yourself lucky hutajua dry spell ni nini kama chairman wa Waka Group of Handles Inc.

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Hapa hakuna dilemma. Marry your baby mama because umemharibia market already. Anything less would be unfair to her because you ruined her life. Single mothers face a lot of problems and most end up marrying people they wouldn’t have dreamed of because of desperation. Ukipea msichana ball, makinika kijana. Right now, only you can marry her with a clean heart, because your child is baggage to any other man. You made her pregnant, you encouraged her not to abort, now you are having second thoughts after ruining her chances with most men she would have genuinely loved?? If you dont marry her, she will get married to a sponsor who is 40 years old, rusty in bed, because that is the only person who will carry your baggage.

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venye @M2Random amesema

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