think about it. What’s the harm in your wife having extra-marital affairs? The hoary old argument, that it can lead to diseases and “outside children”, is outmoded in an age of so wide a choice of contraception.
Who is really harmed by extramarital affairs, provided the parties use contraceptives? No one. The evolutionary reason people commit crimes of passion is because in the past, such affairs could have saddled you with a child that’s not really yours – something a D.N.A test can currently solve.
So let’s evolve, gentlemen. Let us be like @Jimit, who was conceived pale Sabina Joy, and is doing just fine.
It’s the disrespect and betrayal of the highest order
Unafika pale ushago kwa unalipa hefty mahari
You help her parents or siblings in some way or another, especially if you are from a higher social class than her
You provide a decent life (nice neighbourhood, good medical coverage, maybe a car for her, DM, good private school, vacations, some montly allowance, high living standard) for her and (future) offsprings that she could not afford on her own … T
She can choose to be a stay at home mum forever and all her needs will be sorted
You are always there for them
You give her a higher social class (women marrry high)
You give her the wife status
You protect them
Then anaenda anapanuliwa na some ninja for free while you do ALL THE WORK
Ati maybe because you are not giving her affection juu you are working long hours and hard to provide for them
Like most new sexual partners, wanaacha na CD after the first few times and she may not be taking Birth Control since she is married
Hivo ndio unaraise several bastards
She has everything to lose, you have less
NEVER FORGIVE CHEATING even if you cheated or have kids … LET IT BE KNOWN
You can confortably replace her but she will struggle to do the same (even without kids) if you are a high value man
Our legal system is still pro-men so she won’t screw you… No alimony shit and kuna unenforced child support
Women will line up to enjoy the life she was living but the same can not be said for her
This does not apply if you marry someone from a higher or similar social class/financial capability … Hapo she can cheat and you have little flexibility to do anything… You need her as much as she needs you
wow. You’ve put the point across vizuri. Except you’ll never know akiamua kukuliwa nje. Especially if you’re giving her the high-life. She’ll hide it vizuri sana.
Anaweza kuliwa for years but she will get confortable and mess up
Her friends/ neighbor/ worker may snitch
You may find the evidence
If you learn that, unamalizana na yeye
Let it be known that any instance of flirting and/or cheating and she is GONE for good regardless of family intervention
Actually speaking, most wives who get eaten outside marriage are wives of rich people with busy schedules and loose cash. You hardly see the wives of poor guys being panuliwad outside a lot.
