I have come across various types of single moms and am starting to note that there is a difference.
There are these females who got their babies when they were 23yrs going forward. From a baby daddy or a married man. Ladies that fully knew the consequences of their actions and chose to give birth anyway.
There are also these ladies who got knocked up in their teens. 16yrs old to 20. Ladies who were just experimenting with sex and found themselves pregnant unaware of what the future holds for them.
I know 4 ladies at the moment who are in their late 20s and they have grown ass sons that I initially thought were their younger brothers.
In my interaction with these ladies, I discovered that they had no idea giving birth was a big mistake. They also disclosed that most dudes that date them vanish to Karura forest after sleeping with them which is also my destination after hitting it.
So guys, Ikifika hapa kwa KenyaTalk Court Of Jungle Laws and Shenanigans, do we judge all these ladies the same and insist on the “No Dating Single Mothers” rule ama??
Mtoto wa single mother aheshimiwe. Hata Gathecha ni more or less mtoto wa single mother.
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In Kenya… specifically in Nairobi…if you threw a stone randomly at a crowd… you’re assured to hit a single mum…so this discussion concerning single mums will be here for quite a while…
live your life the way you want, hakuna manual, no need of seeking validations from on line strangers, if you decide to hit and stay that’s entirely up to you,. Everyone knows the moment periods start, the girl can conceive, so hakuna cha kusema experimenting, everyone knows the consequences of raw sex , hata those high school girls .