Earlier today in the morning I was buying some items at Savanis Bookshop hapo Latema road, realised that most of the items this Muhindi has hiked them vibaya. I remember some place I used to buy bookshop stuff, it’s called ABEDI STATIONERS. Guy has very good prices.
Only that there was a little catch; I have to cross River road and go past the casino house like am headed to Kirinyaga road, it’s by the turn.
So when I got to the Casino door environment there was this lanye shouting at a man. At first I thought it was a customer deal gone wrong but wait…I was wrong. The guy is actually the husband to the lanye and had come to confront her about her doing the business. They shouted at each other for a while while everyone was watching the unfolding drama, till the lanye engaged what I think was the Ballistic Missile in this argument. She summoned all her strength and shouted at the guy from the depth of her lungs “Kwani wewe unatakanga tukule nini? Si uende home, Mimi ndio hukufanyia job sasa mbona unashinda kunifuata?” The guy was silenced and he walked away into the crowd, his demeanor sticking out like a sore thumb from the shame inflicted by that statement.
Guys, that scared me stiff. As you would expect, I continued walking into my business of the day. The world is very skewed against men. Can you imagine you can lose a job and your wife becomes a lanye and justifies it by loudly announcing to the world that you are a sluggard.
That man looked so helpless. If you don’t have any income and your wife leaves home daily for ‘work’ and you don’t know where she works, don’t be surprised if she is featured here under ‘wangapi’ section.
nilisema hapa, ukiwa in marriage or relationship ukose income, kitu unafaa kufanya ni kuachila bibi aende. Ukipata job ama pesa ikianza kukuja tafuta another woman. Reason, mwanamke is not designed to feed a man.
Mwanaume Bila pesa ni God tu atakusaidia hii dunia, kuna jamaa Fulani najua alikuwa na biz Kali Sana, but shida alikuwa mtu wa sherehe Sana, kazi ilikuwa weekend ni ma road trips na madem pombe…bahati mbaya alikuja akachotwa na bank, msaibu ilianza hapo, jamaa siku hizi naona amechapwa na depression mbaya, wale marafiki na madem wa sherehe wame lost, haki mwanaume ukiwa na pesa tumia poa, invest, ile siku utafirisika ndio utajua mwanaume hana chake.
No offense to the man but kuna KAZI hii Kenya. Sasa shida ni KAZI yenye unatafuta. That guy needs to lower his pride na aingie mjengo ama afanye KAZI ya kuuza maji na mkokoteni.
Nothing worse than a man kuwachwa Kwa nyumba achunge watoto while the wife is out there hustling. Then inafika lunch unapata bwana anatumia wife please call me and when the wife calls, unamwambia Unga ama Gas imeisha…
Heri I try my luck Kwa mjengo ama industrial area than let a woman feed me. That’s why the wife had the audacity to tell him all those hurtful things in public.
Men, your value is in what you provide/ bring at home from hustling. The moment you stop providing, no one will give a fuck about you unless it’s your own mother
Nitawaambia mara ngapi…providing is COMPULSORY for men but optional for women. When you lose your job, the clock starts ticking. Some women are more supportive than others, but most have a very short deadline. Poleni lakini that’s female nature at its finest. By the way, studies have shown that the leading cause of divorce is the man’s loss of income, or a major increase in the woman’s income.
If you earn 100k and your woman earns 30k and you get fired, that marriage is on life support. Similarly, if your woman starts earning 300k, that’s the beginning of the end. Both cases place her in the provisioning role and women are extremely selfish with their resources. There are good biological reasons for their behavior. Nonetheless, if your woman outearns you by being promoted or by you getting fired, you’re f#cked.
As a man, you MUST outearn your wife at all times. So, the woman must need you at all times to sustain her lifestyle. The day she stops needing you is the day that marriage ends.
And what role did this kijiji play in the revelation? Si inaweza kuwa ni mmoja wa hawa malanye nyii huankika hapa? The pages from hii kijiji will one day feature as an exhibit in a very interesting court case. Wacha hizi ng’ome hujiita moderator ziendelee na usingizi.
Uyu jamaa aanze kuskiza life.
Unatoka iyo keja, unaenda kutafuta single room ya thao tano. Unaanzia maisha hapo, tafuta 20yr old wa kujifurahisha usahau bibi
