For me I grew up looking at a man as a provider or the main provider but Ive noticed that it’s like nowadays women are really taking loans for men, hii mambo ilitokanga wapi. I’ve seen so many stories in groups za wamama about unachukua loan for a man then a Anza madharau, anaoa another lady or anatoroka na pesa. Ladies who needs money more here isn’t it you bcz wewe ndio utaachiwa watoto should things go south or if your kids fall seriously ill or even you let’s say when you are pg. Should you give a man all your money hadi you can’t afford to eat when you are pregnant na saa hio uko job but salary iko negative ukilipia mwanaume loans? How do you expect a man to take you seriously when unajidharau to such an extent. Hebu some 8 hio story iko hapo chini. Women we are failing ourselves big time. Taking any loan hata ya 5k for any man unless ametoka kwa tumbo ni dhambi kubwa Sana. Even before God do you think God happy umepea mwanaume hadi you are pg and you can’t eat for the baby. Hiiwazimu tuache please. Sahau kupea mwanaume pesa vile ulisahau matiti ya mamako. This is very sinful and wrong. If God says a man who does not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Who are you woman, wewe ndio unajua kuliko Mungu? This story has pissed me off.
Hello Mums…I have decided to post it here sababu nmefika mwisho( borrowed account), am 12wks pgd, the second child, nmekua nkifeel so weak Hadi I faint especially if I stand for long, I shared my problem with a friend ako na chemist n akanipea dawa nitatumia for the entire period, the problem is zinauzwa 3k but in a way they have helped, lately baba mtoto ameanza vituko behaving like hakua anataka mtoi, anasema mwenye ananipea izo tabs ndie baba mtoi, am working lakini alikopa loan na bank account yangu so for the last three months am receiving zero pay in my account…nlitoka Hadi chamaa coz singeweza kulipa, namtegemea for everything ata Kama ni fruits, nikiitisha anasema pia yeye Hana pesa, sometimes I go to work bila a proper meal, so I decided I go for annual leave atleast nipumzike, akanikuta nmelala kwa kiti n ananiambia Kama mamangu ndie amenifunza kukaa bila kuwork niende kwake…nmekua nkivumilia for long but Leo I have cried tangu asubuhi, I have thought of doing the worst to my life but I believe I will get a sober advise here plz…is it me who is on the wrong or am pushing life with the wrong partner? Mi am fed up with men!
Ona mwingine, how much money do women have to loan men. Naskia kutoka na nyahunyo kaa GSU after curfew. Women can be very stupid at times.
Wah mimi nishaa wai kopea babake mtoi wangu hivyo hivyo lakini chenye niliona kulipwa na dharau toka kwa hio nyumba uyo sio mwanaume lakini atakutafuta vile wangu alinitafutanga mpaka akachoka pole my dear
Mblooo uko sawa lakini? Mbona unatumia herb za wasee wa mathari mental?
Nelly Njesh aliniingisha box ati amepewa tender na Hana doh, I felt pity coz he had sleepless nights, nikakopa kwa coop when he got paid akanunua gari…Sasa nkimwitisha alisema hanipei sababu mimi siwezi mlipa venye ameniprovide tangu nikuje kwake
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My goodness, pole sana bt I think ulikua absent kwa women conference.Let me advice never allow ur partner to ask loan using ur account,I repeat never on earth. The only man who is a gentleman is the one who is 6feet under.Anyway take heart siz
Aki women we go through a lot. Pole sana. Men are not to be trusted. He knows you are down financially and that’s why he is frustrating you. Move out before ukuwe na stress ukufe huko
Jojina…we have to preach the message. We have male leeches among us…when I think about my Mama friend offsetting the 90k nakufa kuf kuf…It is a lot of money. She is young maybe 40 or thereabouts. This noogle took the money and kept up the mjengos with free flights and of course dining with the kungurus in Kenya…then fled pole pole. They have young angry teens…
The last time I posted here that we should have separate investments, guys came to my inbox to somea me. It was a thread between Thiem and I.
They said I should tone it down. Hakuna kitu kama hiyo…we have to give our women civic education via these public platforms.
Now my Mama friend has to cough up or come to an arrangement with the bank to pay mos mos but she is at risk of losing her home here if she defaults. Rendering her homeless technically. She transferred the said loan to his account aendele na mjengo. Little did she know walahi…woooi…bank is not accountable, they just want their money on a monthly basis as was agreed. I feel sad. I am on her speed dial 24/7…if I am awake nachukua…vvv painful.
Generosity will kill women
Advise, wrong partner. Move out or just know you are married single uanze kujipanga.
Wacha Siasa tafadhali. Si wote wanaoa bibi wa pili. Wengine wetu we drink it all away
Was it 90K pounds ama what did I see? Aki ni uchawi ama ni nini Ghai. How? Aki God intervene, women have been bewitched. Ati I give you a loan then you buy a car when I don’t even have food and I am pg for you? I poison you and go take loan with car log book as you dying there wacha madharau zako zikupeleke hosi mbwa. Kesi nikitoka maternity. Na neza hata kataa kuenda hio Matanga yako. Mimi niko na Roho fupi sana. Woi. Unless you will not take even water in that house. Nakumaliza urudi kwa babako shetani, upeleke kichwa ngumu huko.
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Eti ukachukua Loan Na bank account yako Kwani Ulikua unanunua mapenzi hehehe pambanaa Na Hali yako my friend
Poleni sana , Mungu atawaonekania. Sometimes it’s good you spoil us and never ask back your money
Yes. 90 thausand pounds…here we go…11,931,334.69 Kenyan Shilling today. Don’t know about then must have been a lot as the exchange rate may have been different.
Wamama stop being self centered and mean. Watu kwa ndoa ni kusaidiana. Ata nyinyi mmekula zetu mingi. Mnakataa kulipa alafu mnasema mwanaume hafai kudai deni kwa dem. Shindwe.
Eti separate investments…who on average do u think loses in such an arrangement? Men or women? Why even get married if this is the plan?
Yes. Separate investments pls is the way to go. On average it is the kids that lose not the man, not me. So tujipange vilivyo. World and his wife are moving by.
