kusumbuana na budako

Ile plan nilikuwa nataka kuhamia ocha nimeona niache tu. I wanted to transform a 3 roomed house into a full house but mzae akasema nichukue room mbili hio ingine ni ya mfanya kazi. Now in the new arrangement itakuwa ni kama a double roomed house with no privacy since I am next to mfanya kazi. Niko na familia, so tuko watatu. I wanted to have a bafu iko na shower na so many stuff which won’t be possible now with that space. Sasa itakuwa nikama tunaishi bedsitter with no kitchen etc. Nimeona tu niachie mzae mali yake nikatafute yangu.

Hapo ni kama mzae alikufukuza politely

Good decision juu hapo pia utapimiwa hewa.

Mzae hakutaki ocha

it is somehow sad when you don’t feel welcome kwenye ulizaliwa. Means even my children are in a way not welcome too lakini Mungu atanibariki tu

Enda Kwa slum kama hauna kakitu. Wachana na mzae

nyumba ni nani alijenga?

To maintain a healthy relationship with your family and siblings kukaa mbali na wao ni kitu ya maana and only visit them once in a while. familiarity breeds contempt

Tafuta your own property…what you get from your parents should be an icing on the cake. You whine too much. Like I don’t care about what my late dad left us. Nakimbizana na zangu, for me and my children

stop shouting. Say it slowly

Wachana na mali ya babako. I have a house I built in shaggz but I only go to visit there for a few days when I want to check on my parents. Otherwise I can’t fathom the possibility of living in the same compound with my parents and those siblings who decided to dwell in the ancestral land. Tutasumbuana bure na nitapimiwa hewa.

Am watching footie but got nada more to add. Tafuta vitu zako…hata kama ni shack ya mabati.

COvid 19 has taught me ni poa kuwa na something like that… That’s my whole plan coz kuna time kilikuwa kimeumana but as I said I have already changed my plans. Natafuta kwangu as I said.

nimesema hivo as my last statement. Thank you.

Stop being an entitled brat.
Nyumba sio wewe ulijenga na unataka kuchukua rooms zote mfanyi kazi alale nje.

of course there’s room for him all over. Yes I felt sad. What’s wrong with feeling sad? We all have feelings but I am not crying.

It’s a good idea to have a house in shaggz however simple it is. It’s also a place where you can go to cool off and connect with your childhood friends and family. Not to mention that a man needs to escape from his wife for a few days every year to ease tension in the house

Pole peasant. Kuteseka ni kwa muda.

Jitoe tu

Najua unafeel vibaya. But itakuwa tu sawa.
You’ll find your own space where the brat can run around achoke. Arudi akuambie nipeleke town tena