Kulipia dem rent

Now this is a real life story and it goes to buttress my point that it is not your responsibility as a man to rent and pay all those bills for a woman you are in a romantic relationship with, because truth is you don’t owe her that.

I came across this story of this guy on your right who was known as Emmanuel who had rented an apartment for the lady in the picture and when he heard that, another man was in the lady’s house, he rushed there to confront the man.

According to local reports during the heated argument, he collapsed and couldn’t make it—I’m sure the shock and betrayal spiked his BP and in all of it, the lady was unbothered as eyewitnesses say, when the lady was asked to help him when he collapsed, she said she doesn’t care if he lives or not but we gather the police has picked her up as the side piece is on the run.

Now it’s obvious this young man used a huge part of his savings to rent for the lady and hence hearing that she was entertaining another man, he couldn’t handle it and rushed there.

When you don’t spend ‘recklessly’ on a woman, things like this wouldn’t bother you because there is no investment to protect.

And you think she cares that you pay her rent, got her a car and pay her bills? You honestly think that will make her loyal to you?

If she doesn’t love you, no matter what you do, it won’t please her and another man who gives her nothing will get the best versions of her cookie for free and on top of it, be fed with money you provided.

I feel sad for him because this was one he could have avoided. Listen to me young ones, you should NEVER spend money to prove love.

And when you see another man on her, don’t waste your energy going after the man—Just walk away from it. If he had count his losses, and moved on, he would have been here.

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Kende Mende either unipee namba ya sistako ama uoshe elders mecho.

Kutoka uwasili hii kijiji hujawai tupostia matiti.

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Lakini hii inakaa zile story tulikuwa tunasoma kwa oral literature pale form one za mafunzo, ziliitwa fable stories with moral lessons. Difference hapa ni eti sio hekaya za kaka sungura na fisi.

Lesson: Do not take on the role of a husband when she is only your girlfriend. When you have a girlfriend, remember you are just one of the shareholders, whether a majority or a minority. Mnakula tu dividends (chance ya kumwaga…).

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sina sister labda nikupe milaya wa mombasa





Huyo Emanuel by chance ndo @MTINGIZA_KITANDA ? Juu yeye ndo najua alikua analipia malaya rent.

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Kapotty standard chieth

Kulipia dem rent ni one strategy to get laid.Kudinyana kwa wanaume ni a problem to be solved.Kuna wale good looking the problem is easier to solve ata kama wanaboo au ni wajinga madem huwapursue ju ya genes za watoi.Kuna wengine funny na before dem ajue what has happened jamaa Ako ndani.Wale wa kutumia pesa mostly hawana looks na other strategies kama kuwa charming (women are ruthless to ugly men).Alafu Kuna wale wa kujaribu kujiidentify na issues za madem na kuwa nice ndio waonekane wako side yao,ie,kusimp na actions si pesa na kuwa vocal about feminism au kucomfort dem ‘anateswa’ na boy wake mkora.Hawa ndio hubebwa ujinga saidi.
Usiblame mwanaume anajaribu what works for him.

Huyu jamaa ni the original owner of the expansive Taveta sisal plantation yenye aliuzia Criticos na later Kenyatta family.Ata juzi ruto amepewa gift acre kadhaa.The world is built on simping.
In 1900, the young Briton Ewart Grogan, a former Cambridge student, decided to cross the entire African continent on foot for the love of a woman: from Cape Town to Cairo.
Only in this way will the parents of his beloved Gertrude grant him their daughter’s hand in marriage.
Grogan encountered wild animals, cannibal tribes, unknown tropical fevers and many other adventures on his way, which he wrote about in his diary “From Cape to Cairo, the first traverse of Africa from south to north”.
Grogan succeded, married Gertrude and lived with her for over 40 years in Kenya until her untimely death, in whose memory he built and named Gertrude’s Garden Children Hospital in Nairobi, one of the country’s first specialist health facilities, which is still in operation today.

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If you are renting for someone, make sure it’s in your name! If you buy her a car, your name too! Any signs of shenanigans, tell her to move out, gari uza asubuhi mapema.

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Make that “friendly tribes”.

Don’t believe white settler propaganda.

Ama namna gani, our resident African historian, @Micymas

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Mimi niliweka moja hapa, in my early days, went to do a reverse image search juzi nikashtuka that image reverted back kwa kijiji. That lady had some fine tits, hiyo time i was hunting expats 24/7.

Uzuri she lives in Serbia..

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Hiyo paragraph nimecopy from an article nilisoma kitambo nikifanya research ya sisal farming.Nimeona hii post nikakumbuka.
Ata Livingston,the famous explorer alikuwa anajiprove kwa dem fulani alikuwa amemkataa huko UK.
Karibu akufe na malaria akitafuta source of river Nile akijiprove kwa hiyo dem.Eventually dem alikubali amuoe.
It just shows you kusimp is not something new.

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Rink?

Usikuwe mjinga elder

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I think I have found a workaround for hizi shenanigans za kulipa rent ama “kukata” lodging just to get laid. I maintain a one bedroom safe house in a location in the opposite direction to my home. Huku kwa ranches utapata a clean one bedroom for less than 10k. Ile niko nayo nalipia 6500 which is a steal. Considering that kwa wiki unaweza tombana like three times, getting a room at 2k each time is uneconomical in my opinion.

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