Now this is a real life story and it goes to buttress my point that it is not your responsibility as a man to rent and pay all those bills for a woman you are in a romantic relationship with, because truth is you don’t owe her that.
I came across this story of this guy on your right who was known as Emmanuel who had rented an apartment for the lady in the picture and when he heard that, another man was in the lady’s house, he rushed there to confront the man.
According to local reports during the heated argument, he collapsed and couldn’t make it—I’m sure the shock and betrayal spiked his BP and in all of it, the lady was unbothered as eyewitnesses say, when the lady was asked to help him when he collapsed, she said she doesn’t care if he lives or not but we gather the police has picked her up as the side piece is on the run.
Now it’s obvious this young man used a huge part of his savings to rent for the lady and hence hearing that she was entertaining another man, he couldn’t handle it and rushed there.
When you don’t spend ‘recklessly’ on a woman, things like this wouldn’t bother you because there is no investment to protect.
And you think she cares that you pay her rent, got her a car and pay her bills? You honestly think that will make her loyal to you?
If she doesn’t love you, no matter what you do, it won’t please her and another man who gives her nothing will get the best versions of her cookie for free and on top of it, be fed with money you provided.
I feel sad for him because this was one he could have avoided. Listen to me young ones, you should NEVER spend money to prove love.
And when you see another man on her, don’t waste your energy going after the man—Just walk away from it. If he had count his losses, and moved on, he would have been here.




