Hapo watapotea zaidi. To deal with kids, bring yourself to their level first and listen to them. You make them their friend. Apologize to them for making them feel that way. You gain their trust that way then uskize what they’re saying. From this letter, you can clearly see the mother listened to their siblings who accused them of doing drugs without giving them an ear. It’s highly implied.
Hapa ukijifanya ati kichwa ngumu, you risk losing your kids to a lifetime of problems or siku moja uwapate pale calabash na @cortedivoire .
African parents are know-it-alls who would never stop for a second to think that their kids are their own person, with their own brains, needs and wants. We see this attitude daily in how it plays politically even with the current crop of leaders - stubborn and arrogant in their own hubris.
Sure. But underage kids. No need to even think about them. Here they seem to require help to overcome their current scenario… they will learn it the heard way, though…
Of course they’re not fifteen. Hiyo ni kesi inapangwa. Mama has dollar signs juu mwenye atapatwa nao ataambiwa wako 15. Realistically one pf them is 17 the other is 16