Kumbe kugongewa inauma ivo?
So jana tukiwa tunawatch game ya Man U na Chelsea, nilinotice morio wetu alikuwa very deep in thoughts. This was very unusual of him. He is a die hard Man U fan and he is always hyped up watching games of such magnitude when such big clubs in the premier league meet. In such a game, unapata ameitisha his usual drink of choice, delmonte ya mango and he is always engaging in harmless banter with fans of the opposite team lakini jana he was overly quiet, wasnt keen on watching on the game and his drink wasnt even opened. Alikuwa amejawa na mawazo sana. After game kuisha, as we (a couple of friends) were going home, someone decided to ask him whats really wrong. He maybe having a serious issue that may need help. Alikuwa anakataa kusema but finally he opened up.
He found out yesterday morning that his ‘wife’, they are not legally married but have been staying for about 4 years and have a 2 year old kid together. He found out his wife was being smashed by 3 guys. Imagine kupata unagongewa bibi na ndume tatu. Ndume moja ni ya ofisi, ndume ya pili ni some uber guy na ndume ya tatu ni some IT guy from the previous company she was working for. He even showed us the texts he took screenshots and sent them to his WhatsApp. Nilimuonea huruma sana. 4 years ago, his wife was some naive bitch from Kitale fresh from university who didnt know anything about life in Nairobi. He used some connections and secured her a job in some company and she was being paid 25k. A few months ago, she got another job that pays 100k na hapo ndo madharau ilianzia.
From being hard headed to feeling he wasnt his league. She even moved to a bigger house that was nearer to where she works. Morio naye things didnt go well for him and he has been out of a job for the last 1 year. Saa hii she calls the shots and he lives with her in her house. She pays all the bills, morio anabaki kejani akilinda mtoto. So jana aliomba wife yake tenje apigie mtu flani since yake ilikuwa imezima na stima ilikuwa imepotea and thats how he bumped into those texts. He confronted her and it led to an argument and her denying it. Alipanga vitu zake akajitoa huko akarudi huku. Ako kwao temporarily staying with his parents. Whats even worse is that a kid is now involved in their mess. He didnt want to have the kid anyway but she forced him to have it. The only advice I gave him was to visit a hospital and get tested for diseases juu hapo najua kuna ndume ilidinya bibi yakr bila cd. @MTINGIZA_KITANDA kumbe kugongewa inauma? Sijai gongewa so siezi kushow how it feels.
Huyo beste yako ni ghaseer. It’s just a hole. It is a wake up call to better himself. Ajitume kama Mtoto wa yatima. Akistabilize ajitoe lakini asisahau watoto wake.
Hii ikuwe funzo, msiwahi connect dame job unless you are a senior person at your work or senior businessman and you’ll outearn her by like 5-10x even after she gets the job.
Kama wewe ni a normal working class the moment she makes anything close to what you do hapo hakuna relationship. Juu madame wako na headstart yenye sisi hatuna, kwanza siku hizi with this government sponsored feminism in corporate. Na pia wamejua vizuri wakigawa watapewa promotions.
Only poor .en think about kugongewa , mbirionare madvd analea batoto ya Patel bila kusumbua .wageni wakikuja anafichwa kwa tank , JSKS alitombewa na gym attendand / bycyle riding buddy na hasimbui . Only poor bastards care about a hole
Whenever your wife or girlfriend out earns you, she is no longer yours. Women only submit to men who are above them financially and age wise. Jamaa ajitoe roho safi.
That’s a different scenario and she will never be careless enough to expose herself. But if she is the breadwinner in the house or earning more, she will be so careless it won’t take long before you see the signs of cheating
