Juzi I was talking to my long term girlfriend who lives in my house in Nairobi while nko job outside the Country .
On my wall Kuna picha yake, yangu na her mom who passed away in that order. During the call I notice my photo haiko kwa wall. Kumuuliza akasema ati some weeks ago kulikuwa na upepo na ati msumari kwa ukuta where my picha was hanged is not strong. Yet she has moved the picture of her mom to where mine was.
Kufuatilia akajam kusema am petty. Naona nkaa analeta majamaa kwa hao. Mimi nkajua Sina bibi
Wewe unaweza kupea mwanamke nyumba tu akae hapo na si bibi yako? Oi. Inaonekana hivyo ndivyo ulivyo hakuna dawa. Anyway, siku utasema kitu serious usikie mtu anakwambia you are petty, kama unaweza, chukua hatua. Moto haupoi kuitwa maji.
Its usually a mistake that cannot be foreseen when your wife agrees to stay apart from you. You will decide whether you want money or family. these are hard decisions.
Make friends with the watchman or groundskeeper. Warushie kakitu. They will keep an eye out for you. Do not alert her to anything you see thats out of place. She will just cover her tracks better.
Pole gathee agi ipepo on a photo that matters a lot to you…had a bitch way back circa 2014 nikiwa coast hustle i came back impromptu nikapata viatu zangu ziko kwa store…on my end i already had intel which you dont so i would advise play along with her antics ukigather evidence. Ukirudi ni kumfurusha mbio.
Wewe jiulize…ni upepo gani hio inaweza ingia kwa nyumba ing’oe msumari ya picha yako which is between her pic and her late mom’s pic…halafu i-switch pic yako na ya her late mom? @upepo hebu kuja hapa.
Simple… you’re the financial muscle while she enjoys the other muscle from “Otis”. The next few steps you may take depends on who you’re, what you see yourself as, what kind of life you aspire to have( looks like you’re trying to better yourself) and how hopeful you’re about your choice and selections. You can cut the cord ASAP ( my advice) or you can gather evidence and do same ( waste of energy but if you want to have evidence ) … but also, you’re getting gaslit af!