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Someday in 2017 exactly One year and 6 months and 2 days from the day that we buried my father his mobile phone rang. It was one of the old, hardy Nokia models, still with the factory ringtone. I was hesitant to pick up but finally pressed it to my ear.
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A lady at the other end spoke in a charming voice. She asked to speak to him. "But he died last year, " I replied (it had actually been longer).

I explained I was the son to the man she once knew. I asked her name and she said she was Janet. She sounded despondent and said she was sorry for my loss. She hang up.

So many thoughts rushed through my mind. I called her back almost immediately and asked if there was anything she needed but she said no.

I checked her number on Truecaller but she wasn’t Janet as she claimed but Lilian. Why would she lie about her name? I then looked her up on Facebook and saw her profile, went through her photos. She lived in a town my father frequented for work.

She was dark, homely, in her mid-thirties but still about half his age. In one photo she posed with a young boy of about seven on a sofa. She wasn’t beautiful but she seemed kind and agreeable. Could that boy in the photo be my half-brother? Would she take us to Court demanding a share of my father’s property?

My maternal grandmother had died when I was a boy. My mother went for the funeral and then my father brought a mysterious lady to sleep over at our house. “You must never say anything to your mother,” he had said. But then when my mother returned I told her everything. How a strange woman had cooked food in her kitchen and wrapped her kanga on her waist and done her dishes. My mother looked crushed then.

I never mentioned the phone call to my mother, how could I? She’d nursed my late father in illness, bathed him, took him for hospital appointments without fail. And now she spoke so highly of him, even did a memorial, a pointless, messy, teary affair that I’d rather not have attended.

I’ve never heard from the lady again, and the phone went out of use anyway. All we have now is a portrait of my father’s inscrutable face watching us from high up on the wall.

So

Sorry for your loss dude… But what’s the point of this tale again?

I didn’t want your sympathy. The point of the story is to make sense of things.

ok

We all have skeletons in the closet. At least your father was there for you and your mother and siblings if you have any. Human is to err.

you kept your dead father’s phone on for almost two years, or you took over his business and wanted to keep his clients.

Weuh!!! Stay strong and avoid opening that pandoras box.

umepigwa story ya gay hapa ktalk
now u want some sympathy points :D:D:D
toa ushoga hapa

Actually, my own perception is that as humans we are thrust in bizzare circumstances and coincidences which make little sense.

Something of the sort. It was necessary.

Still scared of court court battles

That’s your interpretation, which you’re entitled to have

I used to own that Nokia Model …
They were such great Phones …

:D:DHata wewe umeona hio…
Hekaya tupu…

That’s life. Your father is gone. He is accompanied with his secrets. Thank God for all.

Well written story. I believe that Lilian haa also accepted her losses. Let the sleeping sleep, and the living live.

Babako alikuwa jogoo. Thats ok. But it was not wise to bring another woman in your house, worse still when you guys are bereaved. And if your maternal grandma passes on, then the whole family should attend. I think you have a few bones to pick with your old man but I hope this gives you some carthasis.

They definitely were not that tight. One year is a long time.

I do hope you’ve made sense of things

Yes. Very tough

I don’t believe in God. At least not in a religious sense.

True. There was probably nothing there.

There’s a lot of background and peculiar circumstances you might not be aware of. But I was writing a short snippet not a novel so I couldn’t include everything.

I must admit I have not got much background to go by, but I can tell you right off that I would not likely have told mom if dad did such a thing. But I can tell you that likely your dad felt he needed to rebel against something your mom did. What I am deducing from the snippet is that you were probably mommy’s boy and that is ok. Most boys get the feeling they have to look out for mom. May be you felt that your mom was an angel, but I can tell that your dad was likely not 100% happy with some things your mom did. Forgive the fella.

I’m so glad we have our very own resident psychologist/padre on this forum.

Aha! Sarcasm. You put it out here. Anyone should tell you his take without wisecrack sarcasm oozing back from you.