Hi @kendez mendez
Am 38 nd currently married to a 33yrs old single mum of one boy. My marriage is one year old nd so far I have two elephants in the rooms ! My first problem is this boy, he is just 5 yrs old but too problematic nd mannerless, he eats too much nd most of the time he even wakes up in the dead of the night to eat even afta eating heavy dinner, he is also all over my phones nd tablet nd he really throws tantrums whenever I deny him access infact last month he smashed one of my expensive phones simply bcoz I denied him access to watch videos ! the reason I denied him access is bcoz the videos had adult contents. This kid is also a thief nd ave caught him twice stealing money frm my wallet nd when I asked him he defended himself claiming its the mother who sent him but she denied it . Well, all this mannerless behaviours happens as my wife watches without a word nd am afraid to take action to as to avoid backlash frm her. The atha elephant in the room is that ave come to realize that my wife is on 5yr family planning plan ( Norplant) nd the earliest she can become pregnant is when an over 40yrs ! well, I never saw this coming since she never informed me when we were dating. I don’t think I can wait for this long . Pliz, post this on kenyatalk nd let members help me tackle this two elephants in my room.
I told him single mums are good for hit and run like I do but not marrying.Hupeana coomer rahisi
:D:D:D. Piga mtoto kibareh na divorce the Kunguru over unreconcileable differences.
WIFE???:D:D:D:D This guy is deluded
Najua hii yako hapa ni hekaya tu but still like I said; Once a woman has had a baby with a man, any other man who comes after that is an ATM. He is lucky hajamdunga mimba. He should take off now.
But ukiona mtu amezalisha mwanamke na akahepa, huyo mtu ni mkora. Huyo mtoto ni mtoto wa mkora. Na mtoto wa mkora ni?
When not drunk you exude wisdom in your words like our great grandpas did back then.Waambie wafunge thread sasa.
Ni kuhama na vitu zangu na kuwaachia nyumba. So many other fish in the sea.
Hoping ni nyumba ya wenyewe:p
Kama ni yangu namtimua, even if I have to hire mboys wa base to help me. Na akienda karau unamake sure ushabonga nao before, system ya majambazi.
Tukuwe honest. Mtu ako 38 years ni ngumu kupata bibi hajazaa, especially if he is not loaded well. His only option is to get one who is below 30 and with a girl sio ndume. Also, huyo mtoto apelekwe kwa shosho yake ushago wasikae nyumba moja. Lastly asipitishe 6 months bila kupata mimba. Those are the bare minimums za kuoa single mother if mwanaume ako na baggage ya uzee. Huyu mwanaume ni mzee so it would be unreasonable kumwambia asioe SM
Uko sure? Coz ujue sisi wazee tunatembeanga kama tumevalia condom. Mpaka dem anakwambia live hawezi mind kupata ball.
NOma!
Njojea singo matha expert @GoodVibes group of handles aje na mawaidha.
wawawa wanaume wanaumia huku nje. Si unatoka tuu unapotea kwani iko neni
una ita huyo mtoto elephant in the room juu ya vile ana dishi ama???:D:D:D:D
Getting a 26 year old without a kid is not that hard mtu akiwa patient. But anyway, hata hao hawana watoto wengine husumbua pia.
goodvibes group of handles:D
Trust me it is hard if you are 38 without money
Really? You are probably doing well financially. Almost all relationships between young women and old men are largely transactional and that is a fact. If you have it easy at that age or older, you probably are doing well financially.
I think you are right. Cant say I am loaded though. Not quite yet. But fun pussy always eventually becomes transactional. Believe you me.
But this guy is looking for a wife, not transactional sex. I know that all pussy is transactional when examined through a microscope but you get what I mean.