There is a Meru guy called Vaite I saw sleeping on the street drunk alafu it was raining. I was told he owned successful business hapo CBD but Casino gambling, umalaya na pombe messed up his life. He lost his family, rendered homeless and now sleeps on the streets. He would go to Calabash with lots of money, book a room and eat different lanyes. Alafu pia aligonjeka mdudu huko, Lanyez were badmouthing him na kumuona kama takataka
You can’t mix all those vices and end up well. Ukitaka vizuri you just select one and stick to it but exercise it with moderation and utmost caution. I have said a big no to umaraya and gambling but I take akoho with moderation.
Shifo mimi sina hizo vices… na najisikia kijana ya 25 years. Kandanda nacheza kama my 19 year old self. I still do the things I used to do nikiwa young. I have never abused any substance labda kuonja kuma kadhaa… and I do t think there is anything wrong with me. Kuji nice na ji nice na vitu simple tu.
We only live one life. At least he enjoyed. I also don’t see how a man could be successful yet he engaging in umalaya, pombe and gambling. Hapo wamemjazia narrative. Umalaya rarely brings down a man. Alchohol and gambling can, although gambling typically prevents you from achieving success.
ETI Umalaya rarely brings down a man. You see those managers at SJ who have worked there for more than 30 years, talk to them and you will be shocked. Kuna mmoja mfupi anaitwa Saimo, atakwambia how some men have wasted their fortunes there.
@Simiyu22 re-read my post. The guy would go with money. Book a room huko calabash, spoil lanyes with alcohol and money. From what I heard, he was even paying 10K for threesome and raw sex. You people underestimate how umalaya and alcohol can reduce a man to a pauper
Agreed a well balanced man must have a weakness or two but not too many. Pombe is the worst followed by umaraya. Do it with utmost caution venye esteemed elder amesema hapo juu. Have a healthy fear of em vices na utaishi msuri
My dad told me never to trust a man without vices na sasa najionea. I trusted you when you promised that utarusha number ya sister in law malaya. Ole wangu.