I am one person who say it openly but guys how do you take that lady who makes signals of wanting you?
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Its not wrong
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No it isnât. But ration the quantity and frequency of how you let him know. Otherwise heâll 1. Get a big head or 2. Run away or 3. It will work out fine.
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carnivore womenâŚ
The problem is that no man will say NO, even though he is not interested in a relationship but he will view this as a perfect opportunity ya kukamua a new pussyâŚthen after that ata Malaysia.
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I wont take it personally if:
a) youâre not a cheap college student
b) you have your own money which âweâ can spend
c) you wont beat around the bush once it comes to HIV testing
d)you arenât desperate and thus not trying to âtrapâ me with a pregnancy.
e)you arenât looking for a husband.
f)etc1âŚetcn
Stop fooling us: women making the first moves are desperados looking for husbands in order for their clans to stop nagging them. They almost always have kids and are looking for a âmatureâ men who will treat them as angels.
Do you ever expect Uhuruâs daughter to ever make the first move on any man?
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Deers donât hunt.
But lionesses do.
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its just not normall for a lady to make tha first move, its jus not natural, the thing women do wen they are interested it to put themselves in the âline of fireâ ndo maana wanawake wameumbwa kupenda kuvaa vizuri to generally luk gud, and kupenda kuonekana na kuskika. this two natural inborn characteristics is a natureâs way of making women present themselves for an interested party. lakini ukiona a women makes a move its out of desperation as in anaona kungâara pekee haitoshi this shud tell u what kind of a woman sheâs, a go-getter maybe?.. i dont think so.
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I should have added -
-I am financially independent;
- I am over 30 years
- I aint looking for a husband
When I like something I go for it hata kama ni a nice dinning set, I will save for it. This applies to men too. I see a potential, I dont shy from letting him know.
Now, problem comes when I get bored with him, I will let him know on spot and stop everything.
Check the meaning of âdeerâ from the KTalk lexicon.
Then something must be very wrong with you. If youâve been seeing men with âpotentialâ(which is a mere euphemism for a loaded man), why have you never managed to trap one into your world of âfinancial independenceâ
And if you arenât looking for a husband, why do you bother with the potential thing? I assume youâve been looking for a ferkmate but no man has ever managed to satisfy you.
If you can save for a ânice dining setâ and not buy it straightaway, you arenât financially independent. You are one of those women employed by Mwangiâs Equity , earning 40k pm.
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Now this if you tell a man, it will save him the hassle of all the emotional stuff that comes with you women. He will be good to go, infact you just might end up being best friends!
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Cc @Guru! Kaa chonjo
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hahaha
sema tu unatafuta mtu wakukukamua periodically.
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There lies your problem, you need not go any further. Thatâs the exact reason why you are the one doing the chasing.
It is not wrong for women to confess their love for men. The society has structured it such that they do not have to do it openly. Most men think they met their girlfriends or wives through their own efforts! In most cases, women âpositionâ themselves favourably for men to notice. Only thing you have not to do about those your qualities is you do not have to cloth them as an attitude towards men so much you go about brandishing your ability to âtell offâ boring men. Utakufa na cobwebs katikati ya mguu.
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âŚthen the cycle continues.âŚUnagawa slices like the doctor recommendedâŚ
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