Introverts: What are the things you have done to avoid uncomfortable situations?

[system]

@john_doe

Avoid such situation if possible , but most people think introverts are rude

I’ve lost count of the no. of times I’ve been called rude.

[system]

@old monk

Travelling…No problem I will sleep all through the journeylakini kufika kwa party hapo ndio shida hutokea ninakaa kwa corner pekee yangu hapo ndio maswali huaanza kwani umeboeka? Mbona hauna furaha?Mbona huonge i? Hujawahi wacha kunyamaza…

Since most of these social interactions are unavoidable unavumilia tu.

I make a technical appearance. Just long enough to be seen.

[system]

@Rene Descartes

Whatever you did was probably the right stuff. But its only that those people are neither in your age group nor do you have similar thinking. I mean they are taling about how another masters or phd degree is necessary and you are thinking about money or where to get a lay for today. Even extroverts have their own circles.

Introverted people are not shy. And they do talk alot, but mostly to a small circle of people. No normal person doesnt talk to people. They are measured in making new social relationships. An introvert will not talk for the sake of pleasing your ass, but will not snob either. Again, introverts will not yap yap for the sake of attention. Introverts do like ferking, only that they dont show it.

Learn to differentiate between introverts and people with social dysfunction or cognitive dysfunction.

Very true.

[system]

@Pussi Signal

am not alone naona…am in a few extended family whatsapp groups (courtesy of forced adding)…one group ilikua na meeting last weekend but one…i fckin never showed up…they called, i casually told them kunanyesha sana nko kwa nyumba…they are planning another one…and again i wont show up, brare…waende wakikaukanga.:D:D:D:D

Hapo sasa unazidi. Ni poa kujuana na your relatives, especially the young ones.

[system]

@Rene Descartes

heheheh …hapana…lakini naskianga kama kufanyia dame yangu na neighbour collaboreshen. Ni vile tu staki kupoteza wote na suggestion za upuzi.
With women I find entertaining them being very tedious. So I land people like me. Na wacha ni kwambie madame quiet ni wapoa. mnaingiana kama lock and key.

:D:D:D:D:D

[steve_mmoja]

@denis young

Today we are having a graduation party for one of our relatives huko UON. Since your own means of transport is usually a NO-NO in some of this events -theft. Traffic, accidents etc it was decided we will hire a mat to UON.
Now the thing is I have a very over active mind and by today morning I had created over 100 scenarios why travelling with my relatives would be catastrophic to my psyche. Chiefly among them is avoiding my very extroverted aunts and that uncle who is always drunk even on serious occasions. The will always bother you with questions for the 2hr journey god forbid if we encounter traffic.
So i decided to make up a half truth to get out of travelling with them. Right now i am in another mat comfortable, texting my kisokorokwinyo and listening to my awesome playlist. Tutapatana mbele…haha

apana ogopa hii watu…kuna dawa
next tym hakikisha umekura mayai chemsha nane, supu ya maharagwe na ubebe maji moto…
wakati kelele iko mingi kabisa kwa gari na unaona tumaswari tunaanza kurushwa pande yako…
kunywa maji moto na uwachirie moja porepore…
obviously the drunk uncle atapiga nduru akisema…
uuuuuuuwwwwii. nani huyu anataka kutuua kwa hii gari…tafathari tuheshimiane…
some wise aunt obviously had it in mind to blame the drunk uncle and laugh it off bt since uncle mlevi alikua wa kwanza kupiga nduru atarenga…
ngoja wafunge madirisha arafu uwasindikiZe na ingine…
the awkward silence will last until mfike Nairobi…
however if they insist na kupiga kelele while under siege…
my friend usijifunge…
hakikisha nyi wote mmeshuka kwa hio gari mkinuka mavi…