I drifted away from religion, alongside separating from my baby mama of 7 months old baby. I feel a parental resposibility to my daughter, pays child support “religiously” and arranges public meetups monthly to spend time with my daughter. It is heartbreaking that she has started life with me like that, and that I cannot be in a family with the baby mama. Recently my relatives asking if I am going to be taking the baby for church dedication. And I am like do I even believe in these religion stuff anymore? It seems like too much waters to wade through, given that the baby is not even in my custody na mama yao sio mtu wa kanisa pia. Who has ever brought up a kid separately and how did you handle such issues? I love my daughter very much, and appreciate the few times we have met since she was born. I will appreciate your help kindred.
You are screwed up, once the mother had the custody of the baby just accept that you also surrendered your values,ethos and various social authority to instill to your baby just play your role as an ATM Bila Kusumbua.
Furthermore how sure are you it’s your Daughter…Have you done Dna? Remember kufanana macho,mapua au maskio siyo Dna
What is this ’ child support’ you pay religiously for a baby 7 months old (or maybe between 0-2 yers)? How much ids the child support you pay?
10k
Hapo kusema ukweli huna control. Wangu huenda kanisa za mama yao. Wengine hata wamepelekwa kwa shule za hio makanisa.
If you’re unsure about your beliefs, take your time to explore your own spirituality and values. You can also have open and honest conversations with your baby’s mother about how to navigate these decisions together, considering what’s best for your child’s upbringing. Additionally, for parents looking for ways to support their child and manage expenses, you might want to check out resources on how to get free baby stuff. These can provide insights into practical aspects of parenting, which can be especially helpful in your situation. Remember that your love and presence in your daughter’s life are invaluable, regardless of the path you choose regarding religion.
Religion is a good way to continue fuckn up the lil ones future. consider boarding school for their primary education as well.