interesting psychology

Pos_i.Don · October 30, 2015, 12:24pm

i simply love psychology and understanding people to the core. I see things other people do not see…microexpressions n stuff:D:D…

just to share on some of the things that i have learnt(20% margin of error is always present)
you are always attracted to a person who has the characteristics of the parent of the opposite sex.
that is why momma boys are always attracted to go-getter women because they can do what their mommas did for them.provide while all they is laze around …women who can make decisions for them et.c
women with absentee fathers are attracted to men who are absent…that is emotionally absent n stuff…this partly explains why a quarter of them cant explain why they like bad boys.
men who had open relationships with their mother concerning sex n stuff become very mature in their relationships with women…these are the guys who form very intimate relationships with women yaani ride or die unashangaa is vipi.
women who have open relationships with their fathers concerning sex n stuff become those kind of women who are confident sana in relationships yaani wale watakukalia chapati ukicheza…
those clingy women you see were most likely were left by their fathers or were rejected by them therefore they either avoid relationships or if they get one na inakaa it is about to end they start acting clingy.
those men who have bad relationships with their mothers find great difficulty in forming good relationships with members of the opposite sex…relationships hawawezi longterm …3 months…5 months n its quits wanakosana…

second you attract what you are(50% margin of error because the above takes precedence)…
you attract narcissists if only you are one
you attract emotionally unstable people because you are one
you attract insecure people because you are one
thats why its said you cant fix your partner fix yourself first

Afro · October 30, 2015, 12:33pm

Now i understand a few Exes a bit more.

Is there a book i can read to get to expand my knowledge in this field a bit more?

Phenomenal_Woman · October 30, 2015, 12:59pm

mollisleloaded:

i simply love psychology and understanding people to the core. I see things other people do not see…microexpressions n stuff:D:D…

just to share on some of the things that i have learnt(20% margin of error is always present)
you are always attracted to a person who has the characteristics of the parent of the opposite sex.
that is why momma boys are always attracted to go-getter women because they can do what their mommas did for them.provide while all they is laze around …women who can make decisions for them et.c
women with absentee fathers are attracted to men who are absent…that is emotionally absent n stuff…this partly explains why a quarter of them cant explain why they like bad boys.
men who had open relationships with their mother concerning sex n stuff become very mature in their relationships with women…these are the guys who form very intimate relationships with women yaani ride or die unashangaa is vipi.
women who have open relationships with their fathers concerning sex n stuff become those kind of women who are confident sana in relationships yaani wale watakukalia chapati ukicheza…
those clingy women you see were most likely were left by their fathers or were rejected by them therefore they either avoid relationships or if they get one na inakaa it is about to end they start acting clingy.
those men who have bad relationships with their mothers find great difficulty in forming good relationships with members of the opposite sex…relationships hawawezi longterm …3 months…5 months n its quits wanakosana…

second you attract what you are(50% margin of error because the above takes precedence)…
you attract narcissists if only you are one
you attract emotionally unstable people because you are one
you attract insecure people because you are one
thats why its said you cant fix your partner fix yourself first

Taking notes! What of clingy men? What was their past like…ju nikona gumutu guclingy huku ananibo sana.

Pos_i.Don · October 30, 2015, 1:07pm

google huwezi kosa based on your interests huwezi kosa

basically clinginess for both sexes results from abseeteism/rejection/distant relationships na parent of the opposite sex…but izi vitu kuna other variables thats why you kuna margin of error…there could be desperation/ fear of being alone among other others

High_street · October 30, 2015, 1:39pm

mollisleloaded:

i simply love psychology and understanding people to the core. I see things other people do not see…microexpressions n stuff:D:D…

just to share on some of the things that i have learnt(20% margin of error is always present)
you are always attracted to a person who has the characteristics of the parent of the opposite sex.
that is why momma boys are always attracted to go-getter women because they can do what their mommas did for them.provide while all they is laze around …women who can make decisions for them et.c
women with absentee fathers are attracted to men who are absent…that is emotionally absent n stuff…this partly explains why a quarter of them cant explain why they like bad boys.
men who had open relationships with their mother concerning sex n stuff become very mature in their relationships with women…these are the guys who form very intimate relationships with women yaani ride or die unashangaa is vipi.
women who have open relationships with their fathers concerning sex n stuff become those kind of women who are confident sana in relationships yaani wale watakukalia chapati ukicheza…
those clingy women you see were most likely were left by their fathers or were rejected by them therefore they either avoid relationships or if they get one na inakaa it is about to end they start acting clingy.
those men who have bad relationships with their mothers find great difficulty in forming good relationships with members of the opposite sex…relationships hawawezi longterm …3 months…5 months n its quits wanakosana…

second you attract what you are(50% margin of error because the above takes precedence)…
you attract narcissists if only you are one
you attract emotionally unstable people because you are one
you attract insecure people because you are one
thats why its said you cant fix your partner fix yourself first

True, once read a book on “abnormal behaviour”, and the research findings were amazing…

Old_Monk · October 30, 2015, 1:43pm

An enabler attracts a narcissist

My father is a narcissist my mum wasn’t.

I think it’s rare to find two partners whom both are narcissist

Hash_Tag · October 30, 2015, 1:45pm

www.2knowmyself.com
click on “other articles” to read more articles. it has everything posted here plus more if ur interested in psychology.

gashwin · October 30, 2015, 2:43pm

Bukusuress detected…

WuTang · October 30, 2015, 3:09pm

Sheng ya BGM-KTL hivi hivi.

gashwin · October 30, 2015, 4:14pm

umeiona sio?

WuTang · October 30, 2015, 4:16pm

Nimeisikia sana huko ingo.

Phenomenal_Woman · November 2, 2015, 1:35pm

I’m culturally diverse…

gashwin · November 2, 2015, 1:43pm

karibu, omwana wefwe, ulitokea na ukapotea mpaka tukakumiss…

Phenomenal_Woman · November 2, 2015, 1:46pm

Nimerudi. What’s new? :)

gashwin · November 2, 2015, 1:51pm

tembea tembea kijiji ujionee halafu tutaongea mengi zaidi baadaye…

Phenomenal_Woman · November 2, 2015, 1:54pm

Poa