if you marry a single mother...

Sex & Relationships
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then treat the kids as though they were your own.

I’ve come across a number of posts here from people I’d otherwise consider enlightened advising step-fathers to chase away their step kids after they’ve attained 18 years, and it makes me wonder if they’re really as enlightened as I gave them credit for.

I understand it’s part of the animal condition to shove away outsiders, but remember the kid is an innocent party here. Remember too that some couples adopt and raise kids…

If you end up marrying a single mother, treat the kid with love, as you would your own. Treating him/her differently would only breed resentment between her/him and your biological kids. Treat the kid right, and the kid may end up bonding with you and even assisting you during your old age.

If you’re not gonna love the kid, then don’t marry the mother.

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Ndugu yangu are you speaking out of experience?

ION, you are right and I totally agree … @Kodiaga should take care of his 2 step childrens

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@Tauren and Shit stirring are one and same thing.

Shit Stirring
Someone causing trouble for multiple people, this can be by spreading rumours or known facts that would be preferred to be kept a secret. It’s not sharing your opinion.

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They will beat that sucker to death once they come of age :D:D:D

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Haha, single mothers will always have multiple partners and therefore resentment is always natural to most of the many uncle’s brought home, so if you wanna go down that rathole you might consider bracing yourself for some real shit.

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do you have a reading disability?!

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Haha

I don’t mind your myopic brain

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Kwanza ikue Simp ni msapere, kitambi ni Kama ya UK

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I agree

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You are giving us the mwakenya of simping hehe.

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Twitter TL ya stato sikuizi imejaa ma step son wakichapa ma step dad vibaya sana.Waliambiwa it will become a pandemic when the step sons turn 18 they never listened