Leo kuna watu hawajalipa rent so nawatishia kufunga manyumba. Suprisingly all the people who have not paid their wives hushinda mtaani… In the name of kulea. Get a goddamn househelp u bum! Enda tafuta kazi.
Now if they had handled their rent singeanza matusi. But kaa we ni suferer usioe dame suferer in the name of i want peace when i get home. Oa dame mwenye ikifika time ya kulipa rent anatoa nusu na wewe get ready to bendover na uoshe nyumba once in a while! Alpha male wachia ktalk!
No it ain’t…lakini ngonja wanacome wakwama hapo Mai Mahiu kwa jam. Marry 18-24y/o doolas bila job, yep those ones. They make v good submissive obedient wives they say. I don’t want to take the liberties and tag a few folk here but wajitokeze.
I don’t know how many times I shall post that a woman in a marriage needs to have her own income. Hata kama ni ya kukuwa Mama Nguo…hata kibandaski, farming…
At least bring in some cheese woman…a marriage with shudren should run on 2 incomes and nobody can convince me otherwise…
Poteleeni mbali! Kuna stay@home moms wengine huwa na baraka sana. The moment you marry them njia zako ki finance hufunguka zenyewe. Unapatanga mapromotions, business deals huja kwa wingi tu sana. So usiwadharau, wewe kama ulishindwa na maisha kaa pole pole bwana!
Unafikiria kama kuku. If the only problem with stay-at-home wife arrangement ni pesa, basi si utafute pesa yenyewe kwa wingi like many people that i know. Another thing is also hujaoa so this discussion is irrelevant.
So what happens when the kids go to school and consequently grow up and leave home? the woman vegetates into her old age since her ‘career’ that is raising the kids has vaped into oblivion. Talking from one in the situation, a woman needs her own small income. And when a dude knows that, he respects you more coz he knows a woman can step in when things are thick.
Coz let us be honest these men thumping their chests here will get tired of paying for each and every thing. They then use this as an excuse to roam…atee nini mmkesa kwa nyumba?
A modern educated woman should never agree kuingia hiyo box. A woman could be bringing in a quarter of the household budget and that is what matters. And she retains her dignity.
You are joking. ‘Capture’ one’s career after raising kids…for 18 years? So what was the point of going to school after all? remember I said it does not matter what she does but she needs to do something when the kids are in school…
Been out of work for two years only and things have progressed sana, will need to play lots of catch up next year nikirudi…am excited.