i need to change

close to 4,yrs now ave been a kadinya…kukamua lanyes,kuteka madem clubs nkipeleka mancave,kukamulia kwa gari…ulevi,panty thing etc
so nimedecide to change and i dont know how to come out of this.sijui ni maombi ama ni kutubu ama nianzie wapi.help a brother please…

Goodmorning Sir,meza dawa bila kusumbua.

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You’ll only change when you find The One

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSoYSu1Bt3Q

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utachange kweli ukiona lanye mwenye ako na mathutha poa:rolleyes:

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brothers stop this nonsence…yaani hamwezi saidia mtu.ni kuongea mbaya tu

Grow old in it Kijana, hakuna jogoo wa jike moja.

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Why? Kwani umekanyaga live wire nini?

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You don’t have to do anything about it. Time will sort you out by itself. As you get older, you will get other priorities and stop thinking with your deek

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nop .just a turning point

Some behavioral traits maybe psychological…tafta Dr. Frank Njenga.

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@culture what about your asthma inhalers (suruari za ndani za akina dada)?

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Use your free time doing other activities. Get other hobbies and expand your thinking.

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acha ujinga wewe.no jokes hapa.makende

@WuTang sande sana

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wakamuaje are born they are not made so just accept , mimi nimeoa , nimezeeka na bado sijaoutgrow ukamuaji

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ACHA POMBE MWANZO HAYO MENGINE YATAFUATA

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KIJABNA UMEPOTEA NA HAUSAIDIKI WW

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hahaha.uwes inaonekana uve achieved ur goals in life so ata ukikamua uko fiti.mimi bado

C

Change your focus, start reading or start on an interest you’ve had in mind.
Start going to the gym, change hang outs.
Role solo, if you have a weakness of peer pressure.
Start a project, maybe buy land, start building, doesn’t have to be your dream house .
Save your money, for something meaningful, give yourself targets.
Have it in your mind, that lifestyle you running from ain’t worth it for you, think big of yourself, you better than that lifestyle.
It’s called positive pride, not like he ignorant pride of showing of money and possessions like we see here in the village, that’s for small minds.

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Utafikiria umeacha…
Kidogo kidogo, kisha…
Urudie tabia kupindukia.
Once in there is no way out @culture