This is not a sympathy or advice seeking threat.I just need to let it out to feel better. Two months ago I quite my job to start my own business which at the moment hasn’t gain momentum as expected( its normal in any new business). Living in a first world country with no stable income coming in is no joke as I have come to find out. After the first month jobless na kusumbuana na PM wa nyumba I had it enough and left our house( in technical terms got kicked out in my own house). Sitaki shida na court cases za huku so mwanaume ni kujikaza na kwenda kuanza maisha from scratch besides sio mara ya kwanza. I could not go to seek help from the few people I consider friends.The first few months nikalala Airbnb’s na hoteli at the same time trying to push my business…Huku Pm anaitisha pesa ya upkeep ama nipelekwe kwa court.Money was and is still going out kama Bolt. Maisha ya hoteli ikawa expensive( I had put all my savings in my business) nikaanza kulala kwa gari it’s summer so for now it’s easier but shida ikaanza kuwa parking coz most places Hakuna overnight parking nikaanza kupata tickets…All this time I’m searching for a house to rent but housing market is crazy shared basement inaanza $900 a month ( fuck Toronto) wanaitisha prove of stable income, employment letter which I got none wanaitisha.After kuhepa kulala kwa gari nikaenda homeless shelter huko nilikaa wiki moja not a very safe place nikaona kwa gari is better na hapo ndipo nipo hoping winter isinipate hapa juu nitaumia. To add salt to injury leo nimepokea simu kutoka home naambiwa my dad is hospitalized. Bill ya hospitali ndio hiyo huku pia nimeambia na PM monday napelekwa court kama situmi pesa ya upkeep na ikienda hapo I might lose custody of my daughter.Yenyewe maisha hugeuka mtu within seconds. FUCK
it is darkest before dawn.
What’s so hard with coming back home and starting it here?
Pole boss. Hopefully the tide turns for you. Lakini why did you quit before the biz had actually picked up?
Been to your city Toronto on numerous ocassions. Canadians are really taxed. I guess on the back end the social services you receive break even. That city is expensive.
My only advise for you is to avoid any court proceedings where you would have to pay alimony/child support through the system. Heard in Canada its even worse. You don’t want to get locked up if you default. In the US and Canada, those are the only debtors prisons left. You can default on a million dollar loan but not on the aforementioned. All the best.
You can abandon the business, go back to work and stabilize first.
Keep your head man.The system there is really fucked up towards men and our ladies know this all to well!
Maybe you should abandon the biz and head back to employment to get back on your feet first.
All the best.
Rudi nyumbani, see your dad. That’s always an option then restrategize. Better a man that tried and failed than he who didnt try at all.
yenyewe I’ve even felt like my problems are just shitty… Pole bro
Pole. Potelea nyumbani. Starting from zero is starting from zero regardless of the location.
Saitan ameamua kucheza dombolo kwa life yako. Take it easy it’s just a passing wind.Yote yatapita jipe moyo ndugu.
Vumilia brathe. Av been in deep life threatening sht, three times and all times I managed to get my sht together. None of the people I considered friends ever helped. People always leave.
Do not lose focus. Do everything(legal) you can to pull yourself out of that hole. One finds his own way out somehow if he/she tries harder. Good luck
Been there bro… my only advantage was that my then girlfriend, who is now wifey housed me for 3 good months. Coming back home wasn’t an immediate option though I eventually did after a year…big mistake! Jobs take forever to come and you will have so many responsibilities from extended family. Businesses also need a lot of patience to peak…good thing is you will still recover…some people don’t stay down for long…I believe you are one of them
Godspeed!!
contacts nitakutafutia leo,nilikuwa busy kiasi
Wueh…huyo PM wako anakuchapa KO kama uko chini. Pole bro.
jinga sana. uliacha shamba mzuri nyumbani ukaenda kuishi majuu? ata chokora ana maisha poa uku home. kunja mkia like the prodigal son and come back home. and pray that your ailing dad asijue ile shida unakula uko majuu, atapatwa na pressure and curse you. come back to kenya, bro. io maisha unaishi haina dignity
Manze pole …but tukiwashow msioe cuntbags ka @Purple huwa mnatuskiza kweli?
#Somali&BoranaLadies4Lyf
#FerkPurple
Hapo kuna challenge. Hakuna dem ama jamaa mnaeza saidiana? Hakuna kapsa?
Pink handle? Shemale detected.
pole but cut expenses and attachments
your daughter will forever be yours. you can fight custody later when you regain stability