I have come to realize why our grandfathers used to marry the second wife,it was nothing else other than submission,as In when the first wife turned rouge you know by not being submissive enough and add her crooked broods,that made the home atmosphere inhabitable so the man had to scamper to where he had peace of mind and respect, that’s where the kampamgo crept in from and before he knows it he had become a father,now the mpagos know their role,they know how to massage a man’s ego so that’s how the second and perhaps even the third wives came t being,hata mimi naona nikielekea towards the same trajectory
Maisha ni yako sa sijui kwanini unatuambia
You missed the point…
Am just stating the my observations now that I have realized what is going on…
Kama ulioa kunguru sugu kutoka oyole, pambana na hali yako peke yako.
Akileta nyef nyef ongeza ingine halali
My Grandfather told us.Women are ruled by four men in their entire life.First they submit to the father before they turn rogue wakianza mapenzi.Then Mapenzi yakiwa fresh na moto they submit to the husband in the initial years before watoto wagrow wakue Teenagers and adults she knows hakuna mahali ataenda juu watoto watakua side yake or gang vs the father kakinuka.So they become Rogue kimpango hasikii or submit liken she used to in the early part of marriage when alijua akileta nyef nyef anaweza rudishwa kwao na toddlers wake.
The third man is her Eldest Son or sons whom she will submit to.This is the time around young man teen and early adult hood after starting to earn $$$ or when the patriach has died.Before the Son start to gets babies.Also at this time kuna powerplay between Mama na Bibi for the sons attention.So definately khupipi atapiga Mama sweep moja hatari in fight for attention and Mama will be rogue .
She will be submissive to her son till the fourth man to rule her or make her submissive comes ! That is the grandson!
Hehe, are you finding it challenging to tame your wild wife? Akisumbua show her the door…
You want a second wife …
Huyo lazima akue ni wa Nyery
Wanyeri wanakua aje mkuu…leta hekaya
I wouldn’t do that,where will my beautiful girl(read: daughter) go to?
Huyu atampiga war hatari sana, design ya Bruce Lee juu naona akiwa very possessive
Marrying a second wife to massage your ego will never work. You’ll find yourseld on wife no. 5 very soon. You can’t use petrol to put out a fire mblo.
The are all the same.Very emotional
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Surely, the second wouldn’t be this bad?!
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The fool with a camera was never taught, wild animals aren’t pets!?
OP is attracted to wild women.
Hehe,
If living with one is like living with a cobra, it can’t get any worse. It’s wiser to embrace solitude–make a catapult and go live in a cave, where you can eat locusts, birds and wild berries, drink dew, and light for yourself a fire during rainstorms. You’ll surely find God.