No I am not an ugly guy, it’s just that I was very introverted. I can admit I had no ‘skills’ or experience to seduce women.
Also many of the people in our class, my friends were ever single. We were always busy coding or doing our own stuff but never did anyone dare talk about women or our dating life because that was a topic people knew little about.
The term ‘incels’ perfectly described us.
I got out of campus and realized what I had been missing on.
I could tell women that I am a virgin guy and they are like ‘Waaat’. Some like single mothers could not relate to my situation.
A friend once told me its like telling people you have not gone in the toilet for the past 10 years
How could you miss out on such tender meat that required no marination? At 28, you have to soak the meat for at least a day for it not to break your tooth.
At your own pace… There is a very bad influence and stigmatization from people that u need to get laid mapema at an early age so u can be one of the “coolkids”…i know of a guy that was so pressured that his first sex experience was with a prostitute…
Usikimbize nyaus. Besides,you never know what STD bullets you dodged. Here in this village there’s too much bravado about rooting lasses,let it not be a gauge
Some of us did it out of peer pressure… project zimekukalia but because of peer pressure unajikuta umelenga kufanya pj uko busy chasing skirt alafu you barely make it on presentation day. It was not a sustainable lifestyle inabidi utafute dame.
Introvert here as well but you cant bargain with nature.
We did it wholesomely coz thats what the body required and it was part of growing up.
I actually enjoyed hanging out with chicks than having a drink.
Environment and peers played a huge part though.
No regrets. Man was made for woman and woman for man. Actually if i could go back in time id get laid even more coz in retrospect i threw away lots of chances of smacking some good ass.
Secondary school ass has so much less shenanigans than za huku nje.