This is where my advise comes in handy to married pms. People will climb you only when you are married. But when you get thrown out, they run for their lives. It is easier and cheaper to climb a married person than a thrown one. A thrown one will come with responsibilities.
For me i did have one and once his man left her i had to run away from her also. They become an unnecessary expense to you.
Wenye wanaitisha hekaya name mbisha, they should know people, Wajohi of kigogoine, his friends :theuri, akuku, mpesa, the person with tiita that feels like sandpaper inside, etc