You never earn a woman’s respect by beating her or being a 2meters height gigantic guy.You only earn your wife’s or gf respect by showing her you do not have scarcity mindset. That you can replace her with another woman and you do not need her that much
And for you to have this mindset ,you must be having your own purpose or mission in life.You make your purpose/hustles your priority and your woman comes after.
Like many problems, this little problem also resolves when you stop worrying about it.
Are you a happily married man ?
it doesnt matter but both spouses have to contribute to make the marriage work. A honest answer.
On the contrary not all women think alike on this issue,Kuna a close rela wa mine dame alikufa na stress related illness on learning that the omuhusband had a side dish.Still your wife/gf anaeza kukasirikia ille biad to the extent of running away from and not necessarily worship your feet coz you have a side chic.
Upus Kings rules… Dont take shit