There is a lot of peace of mind and mental sanity in what most people describe as being a selfish loner.
Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
There is no greater peace than sitting in your own house, in front of your TV, watching some good movies like Sin City, eating some good food. Kama hujui kupika kama ile kinyesi inaitwa @Azor Ahai then ole wako. Once in a while, call one of your hoes over, screw her real good, continue living. Like is actually very simple if you decide not to complicate it.
Edit; I just recalled that movie Sin City. Film ya malaya tupu sijui mbona it has not yet been listed as kijiji’s official picture.
Get many small wins to build momentum. Hio tshirt mbili ulifaa kukunja, fold them. These small things pile up. Many people are stuck in absolutes e.g. ka ulifaa kudiet kesho then ukule snack, unasema day wasted when in fact unafaa kuendelea na diet that’s just a bump. Ukipoteza pesa huamui kutupa all your remaining money so why just throw away progress after a bump