Guys, how do you blatantly dump a woman? There is this girl I have been dating, si mbaya lakini sasa amekua burden. Kwao wako na mashida shida ivi (the Dad passed away so wamebaki na mama pekee yake na ni waluhya so wako watoto wengi kwao) anapenda kuniomba pesa sana ovyo ovyo till I feel like she is now taking advantage of me bana. The straw that broke the camel’s back ni vile alifika home jana and now today she wants to come back to town alafu ananiomba fare na anatoka kwao! Its like I am her provider of sorts. Nakuanga roho safi but now I need to just explore the forests since hii kuomba pesa sioni ikiisha.
Introduce her to her replacement.
Treat her like a human being. Tell her you are unable to afford her many demands. If she’s a good person as you say she should understand and adjust her expectations.
analipa ushuru? anaplay role gani kwa uchumi yetu?
there’s no getting out of this situation without being direct, just like how you gave us a brief on your situation, be honest with her.
Amegraduate juzi so hana job.
Shiet. Looks like I am about to have a very difficult conversation. Thanks guys.
At the beginning you never did a cost benefit analysis…sasa kaa hapo hapo…hadi camel back ivunjike
You take one on her
Tuma fare alafu tafuta lanye yello yello. Keep it a secret to your gf. Show lanye aseme she wants a threesome vile mulikua munafanya. Sit on the couch and watch everything unfold. Usisahau kuleta effidense
stop communication. its brutal effective and permanent
Ilianza na slices. Alinikua ananiomba nisihit and run. Now I am in too deep.
:D:D:D:D Hapa atanichukia
Just ignore her, be a man. The fact that anybody can have control over you to the point that they can demand money from any distance and you feel obligated to pay is the real problem. You’ve already been sucked into the cycle of being a beta-cheith simp. The only way to get out is to ignore her, don’t reply calls or text, close that chapter, and then start studying on how to be a man who isn’t so easily manipulated.
Damn. Umeniweka upper cut but umesema ukweli. Empathy is sthin God should never have given me. Thank you for this.
Kanairo na sympathy na empathy…you will die of blood pressure
Vile elders wamesema hapo juu,ignore her kabisa.
Ata yeye mwambie aache kubeba msalaba sio yake. Simu za home aache kuchukua
Muombange pesa pia. Mbao ya mayai pasua hawezi kosa.
Alikua ameenda kucelebrate lakini sasa hapa itabidi tu nimeingia nyasi. She is very submissive na huwa ananipea heshima sana, either that ama ananifanyia high level manipulation. Kudate waschana broke ni taabu tu.