how do you deal with these type of ladies

Sex & Relationships
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There are these ladies you marry, and instead of them having some focus on how your family will progress, they only
think of pulling everything to their home.

Help this friend of mine here.

"I recently started having a gradual overhaul of household items, TV, sofas , carpet, some kitchenware and others. I have been thinking of transporting them to my house in upcountry coz its almost empty so that at least we can be a bit comfortable when we go there. But nimeskia tu kwa simu vile msichana wa mtu anaambia his bros and sisters about things she will give them. she has not even consulted me.

Mshahara yake karibu yote anafanyia wazazi projects home, I take care of all the bills in the house. Last week I was a bit shocked to hear her telling me nimpatie pesa anunue tooth bush, this was 2 days after i had given her 5k to do house shopping."

2

Atleast he is getting laid. Kuna watu walitoboa shimo kwa mattress wakiwa highschool na wakaendelea hadi waleo.
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:D. Back to OP iyo gender si yakutegemea told my boys hakuna tofauti ya house wife na career woman wote wanafikiria kimoja

4

Amkalishe chini with a note book and calculator. Wagawane expenses zote za nyumba based on each person’s income

5

In short you can just avoid marriage all together.

6

Accept you have a Gaidi ‘a Terrorist’ in the house - start harming yourself early ama later you come here with tearful hekaya totally destroyed ki Osama Bin Laden

7

Umeoa tapeli, she is just there because you have money, ukikosa pesa in future atakuwacha, you better look for another lady who loves not your money.

8

Ambia kijana achukue hizo vitu apelekee children home. Halafu aambie sistake ambie familia yake yeye husaidia less fortunate sio watu wanajiweza. Respect is earned.

9

Saaa hii Niko hostage negotiations na gaidi. Lakini August dawa yake iko jikoni

These PEOPLE.

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chief itabidi uoe

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That’s why true African gentlemen make sure the wife buys all household things apart from few electronics which when she gives you won’t replace.
If she gives the tv don’t buy another tuliza club ukikula sembeste .mwanaume mgani atanunua sufuria ,carpet ,vijiko na ushenzi Ile ya nyumba?
Hawezi peana viti, kitanda ama teevee ,hizo dizo plantetion workers tunanunuanga.
Ingekua Mimi toothbrush ngemtengenezea ya mti. Common sense Dio wanaume wamepoteza

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a woman should never buy ata toothpicks kwa nyumba… hiyo ni keja ya mwanaume and you give the final approval of what should be or not to be done. Bibi akianza kununua tuvitu hapo ndio kiburi huingia kwa kichwa.

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avumilie tu.

14

We aren’t talking about women .tunaongelelea married couples with kids .not your come we stay shit

15

All women are hypergamous by nature. When they get the opportunity to jump to a better deal when you are having financial problems they will do that. They do not understand a man’s world and cannot handle it. This love/romance thing comes from momma’s boys who are looking for women to love them like their mothers.You need to grow out of the nonsense. Ile kichapo inakungoja huku nje you will not believe it.

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Today’s women are just terrorists and the softer the man the more terrible the thug