How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support?

Sex & Relationships
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There is this girl I met at my working place in the mid last year, we exchanged contact that day, and one thing led to the other and we started dating. We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she’s not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Please I want to seek advice from my fellow KT members here on how I can peacefully end the relationship without hurting her feelings.

And how can I justify myself so that she won’t have a bad impression about me (and men in general) that I just use her and dump her

2

Did your mother give you any reasons for not liking her? That is of course if she does not come from Nyeri.

3

maybe shes ur cousin. or a sister from another mother.

4

there’s so much missing from your theoretical question such as the reason your mother gave, your cultural backgrounds and so on…

5

Mundu mulosi aka Kende mosi aka the vilage EUNUCH mbona za ovyo asubuhi hii yote?

6

if she is from muranga please run for your life here on earth and after. your mother has very legit reason coupled with many years of experience

7

Why are you dating women your mother would not approve of? If you marry a woman your mother has warned you againt, the chances are about 92.1753% that you will encounter very serious huddles in your marriage.

8

why do you need your mother’s approval? You are the one in the relationship not her. If it works it works, if it doesn’t, you are not the first. It is alright to say no to your mother.

9

Msemo huko kwetu; Mbuzi mzee hapigi chafya bure. Usipuuze mawaidha ya wazee.

10

What did a Murang’a chic do to you? Na ni mmoja aliyekukosea ama ni wangapi? Hebu leta hekaya

11

ignore your mum. keep her the girl away from your mum and tell your mum to assume you single. never let your parents choose you someone who you might stay with for the next 40 years together.

12

Probably

13

My paternal grandma…didn’t get to know of my mother till we were born… I asked my mom why… She said that those days she was so modern and my grandma wasn’t into such things so my dad wasn’t into the idea of introducing her to the mother… He knew what her reaction would be… I think my mamma was a kunguru:D:D:D

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Guys, you shouldn’t give any advice without keen elaboration of this point. rudi hapa @Umbea Kenya

15

Na mtoto wa nyoka ni *****

16

That explains a lot!..

17

Hate speech.
Who do I report this to?

18

He better listen to the song Shame and Scandal by Dr. Ring and The Senior Allstars. Could not manage to attach it here…

19

Please use kind words when talking about your mother. kindly.

20

Haha