I know it’s not cool talking about family bt …I have been living with my female cousin for the last 11 months. Late last yr her hubby hit her so she moved in with me with her 2 kids,whom I love. The first month he supported her financially ,but after realizing she wasn’t going back n suspecting her of having a Ben 10 …he cut off the money .
I was working so I did not mind supporting her,I sensed a controlling att when it came to money , but I was so busy with work …I brushed it off.A month later the hubby came for the kids n bribed social workers since he has financial muscle. He later assaulted her n took everything she had come with since she was a housewife…tukangangana na P3 n cops bt she never went further…however her self esteem was on the floor .Since I was working I made sure she lacked nothing,from expensive outings to designer stuff…was even thinking if getting her a small car after I get a certain big deal.
However coincedentally 3 months ago my consulting job ikaenda mrama n deals stuck mainly due to elections,as her hubby got a big loan from the bank. Wuueh ndio nimejua sijui !!!
The humble person I knew has become this egocentric n competitive person…leaves the house in the morning…only brushes her teeth eti anaitwa na bwana ooh sijui kufanya shopping ya nyumba …ooh sijui bwana anataka kujenga …she needs to see the kids .n gets back to my place via taxi every night(reason she doesn’t want to b intimate…,so she can’t sleep there thou I know they r shagging).
She throws away food in the house…she has developed class for only Carrefour ,west gate n java.he he chakula bila nyama hawezi kula Aki never upgrade a Bisch…
All of a sudden my pals n I want her hubby lol…and she’s micromanaging her house to firing house helps after a few weeks. I thought the hubby was a mean guy kumbe he was living with a gold digging chameleon .am not gonna chase her away coz she’s. On her way out anyway…bt have u ever hosted selfish ungrateful pple??
Unajua msem0 kua kunguru hafugiki? Ongeza hapo binadamu hawana shukrani. Never go overboard to please a human, btw when you don’t do that is when people respect you more. Funny how life works.
Aki na venye alipigwa Ngumi …sasa anataka mzee auze shamba worth 20milly wale pesa…it’s her right yes but u dnt have to show a man forthright you are after money…sina bwana Yesu ananishughulikia hiyo sector:) :)…
i hosted a sponge young man when he was down once. nilimwambia ajitoe siku ile he came from his tom catting rounds akaniuliza kwa nini nilipika kunde na hakulagi eti ningepika sukuma. and it was not that he fell ill if he ate any other veges ni tumaringo tu…
hehehehe … … … Men/the man has essentially spoilt the bitch with money and resulted to violence when she got out of control. Wewe umeongeza hiyo ufidhuli na pesa yako. Bwana akarudi na pesa ya loan akaipeleka bitchocracy to stratospheric levels. Its a self reinforcing system where the guy tries to win her with money and she gets higher and higher on her pedestal.
Hata mimi nashangaa, huyo ni super grown up kuwa housed for 11 months. I have a cousin who did this na mwisho ilikuwa shida tu, yeye na bwana walichukua title deed ya host, wakaenda wakachukua loan ya kuanzisha biz. Biz kuanguka unapata demand letter unashangaa what is!
:D…