I left her wadau. This is a lady with whom I had an amazing relationship for 9months and was even contemplating to wife her. She was nice and loving to a point I was sure SHE ACTUALLY WAS THE ONE.
Then came her friends aka mashetani, ghasia takataka. Wakamchocha ati I look like a player, ati kuna better options for her. They even suggested a few male friends from their circle as replacements.
So early last month alianza madharau na kuwa distant from me. Majamaa mnajua vile msee hufeel ukianza kulengwa na msupa wako. Ikafika point where I couldn’t tolerate kuwa disrespected anymore nikacount my loses and deleted her from my life.
Sasa I have this empty void which I need to fill. Plus with 30 fast approaching nafeel I might never find a lady to marry. Nisaidieni mabrathe (ama mniconsole)
Ooh wazito I forgot to mention, about 95% of the said friends are bitter single mothers. Seems like hawakuwa wanaskia poa beste yao akiwa in a relationship. Alternatively, maybe hawakuwa wanataka aend up kama wao.
9 mONTHS PEKEE!! Ndio unalilia wanaume wenzako kijijini? Nonesense…
Msupa akianza kukulenga also ignore…so many ladies out here…ukishapata na kusettle They will start showing up like “sweety mbona ulinilenga hivyo…” others come ki snipper into your inbox like “u have a cute baby…awwww” wengine will be more direct…
Kuna wengi huko nje.wipe dust and move on. You will even find better. But meanwhile respect the grieving process: shock,denial,anger and heal. I’m sure you are on anger phase. Healing should be round the corner. Best of luck
Good job for realizing your situation and ending it. That in itself should be motivation showing that bado unajiheshimu.
All I can say is hujakufa buda. Na hutakufa. The worst is what you’re experiencing and it can only get better from here.
I have two friends that are a couple now who kissed very many frogs throughout their twenties coming out disappointed each time. They eventually found each other in their early thirties and are now truly happily married.
Hofu ya kutopata bibi isikuweke pressure. Hiyo ni kama kuogopa ati utagongwa na basi kesho. It’s irrational.
Meanwhile, take some time to introspect and make sure you’re physically active to keep your mind clear.