When mama moves from the materimonial bed to sleeping in another bed, what should one do, najua dawa ya mwanamke ni mwanamke mwingine lakini my kids are big enough na sitaki kuwapea stress.
So the kids can see their mother now sleeps in another bed and she doesn’t care? Give her a one week ultimatum. Arudi kwa kitanda yenu na mfanya ngono. If she doesn’t comply, please get another woman even on temporary terms until she behaves.
Am not sure people respond well to ultimatums. Before going that route, I think he should sit her down first and find out what they issue is. Otherwise zitashinda zikirudi.
Ixactly. You took the words from my mouth. There has to be a reason. Maybe you snore loudly, bad breath;). Maybe she has lost interest in sex, of which you need to find out why.
I am assuming they already had a sit down and talked but she decided to riot. If not the case, waongee kwanza, with sincerity to try and resolve the matter. If she still insists on her shenanigans and the man has made effort to correct whatever the matter was, then, the head of the family ought to crack the whip.
Your goose is cooked.The housegirl just told her your little secret.Promise not to bonk the housegirl again and am sure she will move back to the matrimonial bed.Women hate sharing dick,especially with women who they consider ‘lower’ than them socially.
you have a solution to your problem! Go back to the drawing board brother.
the advice i see nowadays utajua wanawake mwanakijiji:D:cool:
Shit test 101. She is using sex to manipulate you, it can only go downhill from there. Dress well when you get out of the house and when you come back be very lively when you interact with your kids. Women hate it when men are happy without them.
Don’t react, be unpredictable!
She expects you to be low, stressed and very sad.Be the opposite… be happy, smile and go on your activities assuming everything is normal
kama huwa unalala 10PM LALA 10PM dont bother where she is ama atalala wapi
, usimuonyeshe madharau kuleta mwanamke mwingine but just DGAF.
wake up go do your business, receive phones with a very happy attitude…
akikaa sana na maringo you know what to do…you dont have to show her or be reckless
never show a woman your desperate or you cant do without her if you do she will take advantage and blackmail you, knowingly or uknowingly
show her your not even desperate to reconcile, akikuambia tuongee tell her theirs some business your handling maybe later…
In the end she will concede
Call her bluff. Mwache alale huko. In fact mtolee vitu sake kwa bedroomna ubadilishe lock ya mlango. Ukitoka unafinga bedroom ukirudiunajifungia ndani ukilala. What you are experiencing is called a shit test. Entertain it now and sure enough more will follow. Ni kama mwanamke kurudi kwao bila sababu halafu Unamwendea. Utabebwa ujinga forever.
Alternatively, if he has time and money, angojee hii corona ikiisha aende ile safari amekuwa aki put away for long. Take a wild road trip lasting two weeks na akirudi aendele na maisha kama kawaida.
This extreme. He does not want to stress his grown kids by dramatising the scenario.
I agree.
Listen very carefully
Step no 1.
Get her drunk, very drunk.
Then come for step no 2.
Why get her drunk? Ndio amtombe saw a sawa mpaka kwa nyeni.
:D:D:D:D:D. Ile wazimu iko Kwa hii kijiji mathari seems like a waiting bay.
Very wise move and most likely she won’t take time to spit it out. You have to be tactical in dealing with women,otherwise utatumiwa time to time if you don’t play your cards right.
Wacha bibi apumzike. Inaonekana na hizi carfew unataka kutombana kila saa mpaka amechoka
That’s a shit test just like @Baresi said, and she’s expecting you to be depressed and start begging. Do the opposite. Enjoy life more, leave the house more, they say the best revenge is living well. Alafu lockdown ikiisha, toka Nairobi uende mini-vacation out of town for like a week. Buy shit for your kids and buy her nothing, basically act like she doesn’t exist. Ataanza tu kujirudisha pole pole. Or you can go scorched earth on her ass umwambie arudishe matako kwa kitanda yako ama aende na watoto, ghaseer yeye:D
Actually scorched earth policy is the most effective strategy. CHoma kila kitu. Fukuza yeye kama mbwa na akileta ujinga ya watoto tupa hao nje pia.