Niliwaletea hekaya apa vile husband ya one of my aunts beat up his kid (a young boy wa class 8) alafu akakuja kumtupa kwa gate ya my grandma with a note saying the kid shouldn’t go back home ama atamuua.
Wadau update imekuja sasa nikiwa en route to Cape Town. So apparently, my aunt alifika home akajam juu niaje uyo bossman anapiga mtoto alafu anampeleka kwa her mother instead of taking him to his own mum.
The aunt ended up leaving him. Sasa jamaa ati amekuja na elders ati kuchukua watu wake warudi lakini wamekataa. Wamesema hawataki uyo jamaa kwa life yao including the kids (sasa ata their daughter amesema ata hapendi budake).
So this man is 52 years old na amewachwa juu ya kujifanya kichwa ngumu. It’s very interesting. Jamaa atakuwa peke yake sasa going forward at 52 in an empty house na finances zake haziko poa so he can’t start eating young petite soft meat. Wacha jamaa aanze kujipikia na kujifulia nguo ndio apate akili.
Wazee wengine kweli hawananga akili. Sasa at 52 you’re used to coming home to a hot meal, a hot shower and a made bed alafu all of a sudden it’s all gone. Ata mtoto wa kutuma kwa duka hakuna jameni.
Will gani na hana pesa wewe huskii. Pesa iko on my grandma’s side of the family kwenye Auntie amerudi.
Sasa uku vijana wa familia wameanza ku-confirm kama kuna allocations kadhaa zitabadilika because of the new additional human beings haha. Ata mimi nitaenda kuona grandpa next week nijue kama mbirrions zangu zinaingia tu vile zilikuwa ama zitapunguka haha.
3 new bodies manze hehe. Kwanza kijana imesemekana apelekwe to some private school pale UK sasa. Mimi bora inheritance yangu iko tu vile ilikuwa imeandikwa haha. Otherwise ngumi zitatembea
A 50 year old man with some kind of financial latitude doesn’t want to be tied down. Got three bros in that age group and the last thing they want is their wives back.
A question. Kwani ni grandfather yako ndio atakuwachia uridhi ama ni babako? I thought you inherit from your dad not your grandfather. What is eating each other hapa.
Yeah, I think most men think they can do things by themselves until they start getting frail. It’s actually easy to just treat you wife and kids well to avoid this but most men hujipiga kifua thinking they’re Caesar himself hehe.
Is why I say men should have kids, early in their lives. At 52 years old, bado una watoto wadogo, why? Your energy is not there, now all you do is whoop their butts for every little infraction.
And a woman leaves you at 52, the last thing you should do, is get another woman to fill the void. Just focus on educating your kids, and keep building your retirement fund.
Just hire a maid and shamba boy to cook and clean.
