COPIED
I wish to encourage everyone here to keep fighting for your children and never give up. I had been denied access to my child by my ex for a long long time, almost 2 years. I went to court last year but unfortunate because of Corona, the case did not proceed. So we got a date in October and we were heard. Now in November i got victory as the court awarded me access to them and we were ordered to split children’s expenses 50/50.
I did send my child support without fail in December but when i wanted to see them she refused and told me that she had already taken the children to Ushago. So January came and the same thing happened again. I asked to see them but she refused and told me that the court did not say i could see them during school days.
What i did not realise was that she had taken the children to her village and even got them a school there.
So i talked to the Admin of this group and he told me to continue sending child support even if i do not see them. It was the hardest thing i could do but now i understand why he told me that. So I sent money in January and February and immediately went to court and filed for contempt of court and variation of court orders as advised by the admin.
So the beginning of this month we had our second hearing and last week i got the victory i had always hoped for.
We were able to demonstrate and prove that the children were not living with the mother and that she had abandoned them at her village while she lived in nairobi. I was able to show that i had obeyed the court orders by sending my child support and that she is the one who had disobeyed court orders by blocking me from accessing my kids.
The court gave me full custody over my 2 kids and she was given access to them. This time tables have turned. She was ordered to be sending me ksh 5,000 every month as her contribution to child upkeep.
So I am very grateful to you guys for walking with me through this trying time and your support and advice. Thank you for always picking up my calls hata nikipiga mara ngapi. You guys never got tired of me. That today i stand here as a victorious father and encourage other fathers to never give up. Thank you.
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