Update: Since this week am alone at the office, I decided to tell her to pass by so we could discuss a few things about this new Friendship/relationship. So at around 4pm she came. Main point from the discussion is that she wants me, but she knows am not ready to settle down with her. She asked whether I’d be free taking her to meet my friends and I just told her that would be tricky…that there are things I have to sit down and reflect on first before thinking of something serious with her. Her reaction is 50/50, part of her wants me, and part doesn’t knowing that it won’t go the way she wants. Am also not the kind to lure someone into something while knowing that I don’t mean it. She was really asking a lot of questions which were confusing me and I just grabbed her and brought her close to me. We had a steamy kissing session in that office. I know that will give her something to think about…
Nilikuwa nakuheshimu kama fisi mwenza but umeniangusha sana…munch dem goodies then ushow dame you want it to be a casual thing…akubali ama aende akikaukanga
Usually a normal woman doesnt outright ask you for a full body massage when you barely know each other. I have been pursued by women but its very subtle. That is , it is kinda hidden. They just make themselves available without you knowing. They always pass by making sure you see them without telling you, will wear more make-up, will be really nice to you, etc etc.
You can hit it if you want but what are the consequences after. Drama on job, etc. Can you handle. Such things cost you promotions, integrity etc.
Kuna kasoro pahali.