When I started making six figures plus niliona ni time sasa ku organize life vizuri both business na home. So I thought of hiring a secretary, mtu wa kunisaidia na schedules, calls, na operations. Since my wife alikuwa ndiye manager wangu from the beginning, I involved her.
To my surprise, she suggested her younger sister amegraduate UON one year ago. Akasema hawezi trust mtu mwingine apart from family. Honestly, sikulike that idea. Mixing family na kazi at that level ilini-feel risky sana.
Nilimkataa
Lakini wueh… mambo ilichange.
Alianza kusema nataka kuleta mwanamke mwingine kwa maisha yangu. Drama ika-escalate mpaka sometimes akawa anapigia babake simu usiku akilia. Nilikua confused bana like how did we even get here? Nikajaribu kucool things down, hata nikamwambia babake respectfully asiingilie mambo ya ndoa unless ako ready kuchukua responsibility
Eventually tulisettle. Nikaanza kufikiria about my kids, future, na my environment sikua nataka tension ionekane nje. So nikagive in.
Sister yake akahamia kwetu mwenye mimi mwenyewe nimekuwa nikilipia school fees and funny enough wife anadai Acha aje nione kama fees ilikuwa ya kutupa
Mimi hapa bado nalijaribu kuweka boundaries. Nikasuggest akae nje, arent place yake juu sitaki unnecessary temptations ama complications. Lakini tena, my wife hakuskia. Argument nyingine. Nikasema sawa, akae tu kwa compound.
At first, everything looked normal. Dem ako hardworking, very Gen Z vibes always active, anajua kazi. Lakini pole pole, vitu zikaanza kufeel off.
Kila nikienda meeting, wife anasema, “Acha Lilian akupeleke.”
Nikitaka kutoka peke yangu, “Usiende bila yeye.”
Hata hangouts, lazima awe hapo.
Mara fundisha ye kudrive
Nikaanza kushangaa… rada ni gani?
Then the dressing… wueh.
Stylish, tight, revealing kiasi. Nilipojaribu kuaddress hiyo issue, wife ananijibu, “Kwani unataka avae kama wagithomo? She’s Gen Z, ako tu sawa.”
Nikanyamaza, but deep down haikunisettle.
After like one month, sikuweza tena. Nikamuita Lilian, nikamuuliza straight: “Kuna nini inaendelea? Ama ni mimi naoverthink?”
Dem akaamua kumwaga truth design ya coins
Akasema hii setup yote si coincidence.
Ati wife yangu already alisha-plan ameshaakikisha ako karibu na mimi all the time. Hizo nguo? Wife ndiye alinunua. Mara alishadungwa sindano asizae sijui ya two years.. hata amesema mimi ndio side chick wako… na hii whole thing ni kuhakikisha everything stays within the family.
Hapo ndio ilihit.
Nikarealize pia since nimeishia kutumia accounts za wife kufanya transactions especially kuorder goods China kumbe six figures zilimfanya aone hapa Mali lazima irudi.kwa.familia
Sasa nikabaki hapo thinking…
Am I in a trap ?
Ama wife yangu anajaribu kunicontain in a way yenye sielewi business, family, control zote zimeblend?
Honestly… mpaka leo sijui form ni gani…
