He is not the Dad

Wadau saidia hapa. So a close cousin of mine and his chic got blessed with a baby girl 4 months ago. the baby is really cute I have to say. problem is that huyu jamaa kuna vile huwa curious and his curiosity led him to taking a paternity test. Results came and the results are negative. yaani he is not the dad. This guy has been stressed for two days and am the only person he has entrusted with this information.
How is he supppsed to go about this situation? Problem is that huyo dem amejulikana hadi na parents na siblings wa cuzo and they already know about the baby. He hasn’t confronted the chic yet and they are living together. saidia na mawaidha hapa. should he let them go? and if yes, how is he going to handle his parents, siblings and relatives?

Wakikaa pamoja atabandikwa twingine tutatu twa madume tofauti. He needs to talk to her while her memory is still sharp, mambo ya family baadaye.

If he doesn’t do it now, the truth will explode someday during a heated argument.

Bibi ni wake au wa watu wao? Mwambie huyo mjinga atupe hiyo kunguru asap au aendelea kulelea ndume zingine watoto pole pole bila kusumbua!

Im guessing at this point he has already signed the Birth Certificate claiming to be the father and if he has, legally there is nothing he can do and will have to care for the child. Though am not sure if there is a window of opportunity in Kenyan law for you to deny parternity. Any lawyers in the house?

Sometimes life can shaft you proper.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4117362/Oklahoma-man-forced-pay-child-support-s-kid-didn-t-girlfriend-cheating-time.html

Do we sign birth certificates?

Does he know who’s baby it is?

Thinman,yani umekonda mpaka ukashindwa kuzalisha galfriend?Hapana kuja hapa na stori eti “am asking for a friend”

Forget the parents, relatives etc… They won’t contribute in the rearing of another man’s spawn.
Ajitoe tu.

he had no idea who the daddy is

mimi niko na watoto yangu tatu mkubwa

Ajaribu juu chini kujitoa. Yani everyday uko kwa hao and raisng that kid, utakuwa unakumbuka tu the way dame alikuchezea. And in this day and age, raising a kid is expensive na watu wanapata mbili ama tatu so already you will need to cut down on any future kids you may have. Apana, he should try to chuck.

Real men dont give a fuck about parents, relatives and friends when it comes to personal life decisions. I don’t see how any sober man would risk spending the rest of his life with a kunguru just to please relatives and friends. Top that up with spending his hard earned money to raise another man’s seed, wacha ikae. If he has any brains left, he should leave that kunguru to struggle with single motherhood or trace the biological father of her kid. Some things have no way out. He has to leave immediately!!!

watu wengi hawajui ukisign iyo birth cert ni kujicomit kuangalia mtoi regardless wewe ndiye mzae or not ndiyo unaambiwangwa kama hauko sure usisign

Mwambie andikie his parent this kind of message
“Sio kwa ubaya mum and dad,but sitalea mtoto najua si wangu”

They will then chip in and advice him accordingly

nonsense if you have evidence you are not the father you can request for divorce immediately ten mupate official DNA test atembeze kiatu

ambia boy wako asiwe violent achukue vitu za dem kwa lorry apeleke nje ya nyumba ya wazazi wake awaambie story na awawachie vitu za ngombe wao pamoja na hio ndama alizaa , apan tambua NDAMA ya wenyewe , umbwa yeye

Where is it signed?

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The earlier he ends the relationship, the better. His family and even the kunguru will respect him after this

Hehehehehehe! Hapo umeweza mtu.

just ghost on that kunguru. She is not worth saying goodbye to. Aamke siku moja kwenda job lakini jioni harudi.

Utakuwa unaamka asubuhi na mapema 5 or 6AM kwenda kazi unapigwa na jua siku mzima, unajinyima raha, you sacrifice your own standard of living and peace of mind kusaidia kunguru alikubetray kulea mtoto wake na some random dude for 18 full years??? I suggest you start respecting your own sweat and money usisaidie kunguru na ndume kulea watoto. Personally, I would never sacrifice my own income, standard of living, happiness and peace of mind to help a whore and her fuckmate to raise their kid. Pesa nafaa kuwa naenda nayo vacation Mombasa ama Zanzibar niende kulipa school fees ya mtoto sio wangu…hell no!!

Hii story siku ile italipuka uje utwambie kama dame alitaja the real dad