Elders if you find yourself in this situation, would you forgive your girlfriend if she was raped.[ATTACH=full]183028[/ATTACH]
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Legend has it that the dude is now the mayor of I Told You Town. He made the right call because the kunguru violated the T&C
Rape is another thing altogether.
I’d probably go make sure she gets medical attention etc.
After that ajipe shughuli. No forgiveness!
If she’d gone out and had consensual sex I doubt she’d have spoken up.
Also “rabid hate from her friends”… Who cares? Her friends are her friends, not OUR friends.
:DYou forgive some one for doing something wrong.
Context is very important. Bitch went out clubbing with guys I presume she didn’t know well enough ;KUNGURU.
The operational fact here is deceit. Atembeze. If the s.hit didn’t happen to her she would have done it again and again. Choices and consequences my fren.
Haha…ma jama you are very salty.
What happened to being human first.
I would Forgive her ,console her during the difficult period and after she heals i can call it quits.
Not her fault and nothing to forgive
You always quit when you are ahead… If you console her you never know… when she heels, then her Dad dies then your left postponing the shiet altogether… Kidogo kidogo those friends of hers says your such a good friend of hers, marriage ideals start creeping up. Then you are forced to dump the bi.tch on the altar then you are labeled the monster.
Thats forgiveness… just mcoondu by another exotic name
The problem is she doesn’t value him until she lands into trabble. A beta male would take her and nurse her back to her feet because that’s their role. A normal male would have known a long time ago that she is a user and would have already moved on before she got into this mess.
The terms and conditions stated that he would leave her if she went out “I told her that if she went, I’m breaking up with her”. So, whether she was raped or not, she went out and should be dumped. Even if she wasn’t raped, the dude should still have dumped her. Hapa hakuna kesi.
she is not being dumped coz she was raped, alikuwa kichwa ngumu.
I would pretend to feel sorry for her and stick by her until some of this shit cools down then I would dump. Her I would earn major points to her and my friends which I would later cash in.
She was in the company of two males in the middle of the night at the time of being raped.
Huyo ni kunguru.
What wrong did the chick do? Ni fala tu anaeza ambia dem asiende club. She made a decision to get drunk in the company of Mr. Katombi, akatombwa. Period. That is not a crime, it is lack of good judgement. There is nothing to forgive there. If you ask me, the question is not whether to forgive, but if you would ever hit it again. The answer of course depends not on us, but the two involved. How hot is she? Is she infected after the act? Does she have unrealistic expectations of the fella (eg does she think they have a future together etc) If they are cool with seeing each other and continue hanging out, who are we to say no?
My favorite “Cousin” , Barrack Obama once said …“Choices have Consequenses” …
Penetration is Penetration … whether willingly or not …
If it had not been Rape , … chances are you would have been none the wiser …
Most of the women we hump have been humped before by other men [ … or women …]
Just play safe …
Make sure she gets preventive ARV and Pregnancy treatment …
And make sure she understands that the ROE [ Rules Of Engagement ] have henceforth changed …
You reserve the same right as her to roll with female friends of choice …
Apologize to her. Pray with her, report the case, get the culprits locked up, marry her and forgive. We will have the best lives ever after two kids. May God bless her. It’s soo painful for her too
@digi ni wewe uliDFHKMBL huyo dem? Wewe inakaa ulikuwa behind it all (no pun).